Sheena - posted on 01/23/2013 ( 9 moms have responded )
My husband is the boss of about 80 people. I recently found extremely sexual and inappropriate texts between him and a young girl who is his employee. I flipped out, of course and confronted him. He quickly deleted all the messages.. This to me was confirmation it was something major. He denied denied denied, the finally admitted to it BUT said that his coworker (guy who is also married) grabbed his phone and did it. Now I'm just suppose to believe him and move on? They work together everyday and I'm a stay at home mom and feel sad and depressed about this still. I feel like maybe the guy who wrote it should have some accountability with own wife!! but when I told my husband this he said "if your going to act like a phsyco, ill divorce you!" That hurt.. I'm so confused and angry and hurt.. How am I suppose to have closure with all of this, our marriage was absolutely wonderful before this! And now it's so tainted... Help!!!