When do kids stop wetting the bed?

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My daughter is 4 years and still wears a nappy at night i have tried everything to get her off nappies but all efforts have failed. i have tried waking her up at night it has to be like 3 to 4 times in one night i then noticed that when is time to wake up she would still be tired. and i sometimes dont wake up then she wets the bed. what should i do am really depressed.

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Leander - posted on 02/03/2011

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Hi, its a very hard situation- I bet u ask your all the time "is she ever going to stop". I was in the same situation 12 1/2 years ago and i am still asking my self the same question. I was told that bettwetting is not classed as a problem until they are 8 years old and still wetting. My son and i have seen many doctors up until 1 1/2 years ago when they told me "we have tried everything and there is nothing more at this stage we can do". My son has had an ultrasound to make sure he had 2 kidneys and a large enough bladder , everything so OK -thank god, so the doctor told me it was passed down through the family (my mother was a bed wetting until the age of 12 and also my nans brother was a wetter untile the age of 14, so when there is no medical reason for bedwetters they then turn to familly history of wetters and the ages that they stopped wetting, the doctors told me my son would probably stop wetting between the ages of 12 and 14 there abouts. We tried bedwetting alarms, they are good but my son is a very heavey sleeper, there is also medication called Minirin which they dont try on the kids until they are older and pretty much the last resort, it is a ardificial hormone (look it up on the internet).
GOOD LUCK i hope your daughter has dry night very soon.

Amy - posted on 02/03/2011

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I have 3 sons ages 16, 12, and 3. The 16 year old was completely toilet trained during the day by age 2 and wet the bed until he was 12. My middle son didn't wet the bed when he was preschool but started wetting the bed when he was in second grade because the teacher didn't let him go at school and so his body adjusted to making more urine at night to eliminate the waste that didn't get eliminated during the day. Limiting liquid didn't work just turned his urine brown. After the school year was over it took a month for his body to adjust back. So make sure she is drinking plenty during the day and urinating often during the day. My youngest is a very light sleeper which means if someone gets up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night he is right there with them but he hasn't worn a diaper at night since he was 18 months. Of course with him once he is up it is hard to convince him to go back to bed so I would actually rather he have to wear a diaper at night.

Caz - posted on 02/03/2011

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Hi Bontie this might help you in some ways i have got a 6yrs old son and i have never had bed wetting but a friend of mine gave me some advice when i was doing potty training is that when you are going to put your daughter to bed do not let her have a drink at least 30 minutes before she has to go to bed and let her sit on the potty or toliet before she gets into bed this do work and i never had a problem with my son i hope this will help to all of you mum's with a child what do wet the bed, i do know it is not your or your childs fault try this and let me know how you got on okay

Rachel - posted on 02/03/2011

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lifting does not work. Children can be wet at night til 7 on regular basis without it being a problem, but it may be worth having her urine checked as girls do get urine infections more than boys - its boys who get them more oftn. also talk to your health visitor or equivalent as there is a sum you can do to see if they are high enough in bladder strength to hold enough wee for their age. you should make sure they have enough liquid through the day and stop them drinking about one to one and a half hours b4 they go to bed. you should get them into the habit of weeing b4 bed and also when they get up and can reward this and drinking enough but not a dry nappy or bed as it could be something they cant do about and you dont want them to get stressed out this can make it worse.
hope those things help
Rachel

Becki - posted on 02/03/2011

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My little boy is 3 1/2 and he still wears pull ups for bed, im not in any hurry to get him out of them, i see it that he will go dry through the night when he's ready so i wouldn't worry about it at all

Kristie - posted on 02/03/2011

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My son did not have more than one dry night a week until he was about 12 years old. My grandmother told me she and several of her brothers and my father also had the same problem. My pediatrician said that kids all stop in their own times and that there is a hormone that your body produces that concentrates your urine while you sleep so that your bladder doesn't tend to get so full at night. He prescribed meds that didn't help, so we just waited it out. I didn't make a big deal about it. He wore Pull-ups then
Good Nights, then when he was too big for these, he wore adult incontinence undergarments at night. Around his 12th birthday, like magic, it just stopped.

My advise to you is the same advise my grandma gave me. Don't worry about it, and don't make a big deal about it to your child. Just make sure that she has a way to sleep comfortably, and when her body is ready, she will achieve night time dryness.

Joss - posted on 02/03/2011

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Apparently one in six children regulary wet the bed until the age of six. That's what my doctor told me, after having concerns my daughter was wetting the bed every night at the age of 5yrs.
I kept her in pull ups up to the age of 6 and one night when we ran out I hoped for the best...and now just over a year on she has only wet the bed twice! Most apparently out grow it themselves by the age of seven...I know it's hard and expensive to keep them in nappies but she WILL grow out of this it may take a long time. After a year of no accidents I can only just remember the nightmare of changing sheets 2 - 3 times a night.
Good Luck and hope all goes well.

Ann - posted on 02/03/2011

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You have 6 weeks ahead of you in prepping your child, but it is well worth it...my oldest daughter wet the bed until she was 10...it was a constant battle & I thought she could help it, but found out from the Pediatrician that she sleep too deeply & couldn't wake up in time. He put her on an oral med which brought her up from deep sleep to normal sleep & for 6 weeks I had to wake her up at 10-11PM, walk her to the toilet, sit her down on same & then wash her face...she then 1/2 woke up & then back to bed. It worked...she is now almost 50. It was different with my "oophs" baby who is 30. The doctor prescribed a nasal spray & the routine as with my oldest child & that worked. You might ask your daughter's doctor if it has anything to do with allergies...my kids (4) are all allergic to milk...good luck & I feel your pain. Most of my spare time was spent in the laundry room washing sheets.

Shannon - posted on 02/03/2011

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4 is still young to be too worried about it. It may take a couple more years. A small child's sleep is more important at that age. Also, consider what and how much she drinks in the evening. She'll grow out of it or her doctor will recommend the bed wetting alarm when he/she feels it's necessary. Hang in there! :)

Mary - posted on 02/03/2011

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I know where you're at and I don't in any way mean to belittle what you are feeling because it can be very depressing. But I come to tell you as the Mother of a now 20 year old this to shall pass. When my daughter was 22 months she potty trained liquid and solid both but not night time. I believe she was about 4 1/2 before she started staying dry at night. Some kids just sleep so soundly and their bladders are not fully developed for that muscle to work when they are sleeping. As odd as this is I did discover these two things that might help. I noticed that when my daughter had soda at some point in the day she was more likely to wet at night. I don't understand the connection other than the carbonation possibly? Weird but true. And when I would give her a bubble bath the same result. Not sure about that one either other than the fact that I tested both and for some reason they were related to her bed wetting. Hope these experiences are of help to you and be happy we are in a time when Nighttime diapers exist and you aren't doing bedding laundry daily. Best wishes.

Missy - posted on 02/03/2011

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As others have said there really isnt a set age. My 8 year old quit wetting the bed at night at 18 months. My 3 year old on the other hand still has problems. We quit giving him anything to drink past 5:30 pm and we have noticed more dry nights. Have you talked to your pediatrician about it? There is a medication she could take if that is the route you want to go.

Jeanette - posted on 02/03/2011

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If you look back thru familys there was probably someone who wet the bed, I was a bed wetter and my brother I had a couple of kids that wet the bed also, and uncles, please do not make them ashamed of it if it goes on up until age. I was almost 12 and know others that did this. Getting punished for it is not the answer, I guess sometimes you sleep so sound you do not realize it has happend, I would not realize it until I had woke the next morning. When my child did this I knew from experience, good and bad that he did not just do this and that it was an embassesment to him also. Think about sleeping over at relatives or wanting to at a friends or having someone want to stay overnight with that child knowing you could wet the bed. Just be loving and supportive never blaming, they will grown out of it at different ages, some early some later. I've known kids up to 12 with this problem.

Kate - posted on 02/03/2011

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My daughter is 7 and still needs a pull up at night. I asked the doctor about it at her last well visit and he said not to worry about it.There is a click in the brain that happens and for some if takes longer. After 8 he said we need to look into some kind of intervention in the meantime we don't make it a big deal so that it doesn't affect her self esteem. Good luck!

Deb - posted on 02/03/2011

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i would suggest no liquids after 4 p.m.my daughter just turned 13yrs. but she is special needs but is no excuse for wetting the bed. there some meds you can get from the dr.

Michelle - posted on 02/03/2011

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I think that 5 is the average age when they naturally stop wetting the bed. I don't think you can make it happen. I believe that bladder control is most associated with the size of the bladder, which of course grows as the body grows. If you're still concerned after 5 about frequent bedwetting, then I'd see a doctor. By the way, my husband is a urologist.

Jeanne - posted on 02/03/2011

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I have 5 kids and 3 out of 5 stopped wetting the bed between the age of 4 1/2 and 5. The other two (8 and almost 11 now) still wet the bed. Eventually, this will stop. Adults don't wet the bed. My daughter still goes to sleepovers, she makes sure to pee before bed and wears a pull-up. At home we wake them up before going to bed ourselves. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn't.

RedWolff - posted on 02/03/2011

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My daughter will be 8 on Sunday and she has accidents at night sometimes. They are fewer now than when she was say 5 or 6 but when she is sick or over tired as the others say they fall into a deeper sleep or she might be as all say a very deep sleeper. when in this deep sleep her body doesn't wake her when her bladder is full, I just make a habit of waking her 2 to 3 hrs after the last time she went to the bathroom before bed then I go on to bed. it seems to help my daughter a lot. I also have always told her "accidents happen, we need to clean up and get back to bed" It helped her just saying that and she tried harder not to drink too much before bed so that "accidents won't happen" as she liked to say.

Jamie - posted on 02/03/2011

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I have no idea mine 4yo son has the same problem! His 2 and a half year old brother hardley ever wets the bed

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Both my kids didn't stop wetting the bed until they were six. Try having her pee before she goes to bed, but don't worry about it. It's totally normal that she's still wetting. She should wear pullups until she stops!

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some kids just have immature bladders. She may be one of them. At some point she will want to not wear them anymore. until then Pull-ups (Pampers I think makes them) work and they are like underwear . If she is indeed a child with an immature bladder this could be happening until she is 10 or 12. She needs to not be made to feel ashamed of it as there really is no way top control it if it is an actual physical ailment. You can consult a doctor to have her checked to be sure there is nothing else that could be making it happen. Believe it or not food allergies can have that effect on some children. It's happened. Get her checked for any health problems and if it is just the way it is, it will pass. At 4 she is really still just a baby. Eventually she will ba capable of changing her own bedding and when she can have her do it. She is also not too young to learn to run the washer, change her own underwear, do her own laundry (limited of course and with help to do it all), she is after all only little) Help her see what is involved in cleaning it up and that will help. But NEVER and I cannot emphasize this enough NEVER make her feel ashamed of it. it just happens. It is part of growing up

Mererid - posted on 02/03/2011

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I got so depressed about the wet beds, then I decided to give in and stick to night-time nappies (this was in the days before readily available diposables).. The terry nappies were so much easier to wash than sheets and duvets!
Two of mine were very heavy sleepers, and these were the two who had night accidents. The only helpful advice I had was to "chill out" and wait until the child wes ready - "they never wear nappies on their wedding night!"
Give it time. Both you and your daughter need to sleep at night, or both of you will be stressed out. Relax, and enjoy the days.

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My goodness, this post has a lot of replies! I do not have time to go over them, so I will just share my own personal experience.
I was 12 years old before I stopped wetting the bed completely. Thats right, 12! Most of it was the lack of help from my mother, but even when I made sure to stop myself from drinking anything after 7pm, I still wet the bed.
It ruled my life. I couldn't have sleep overs or go stay somewhere else without worrying. It truly is a nightmare.
Here is what worked for ME! It may be hard to get a 4 year old to do this, but its worth a shot!
Have her pee, then stop, hold it for a second, pee, stop and hold it, until shes done. Basically, its Keegles. Not sure I spelled that right, but yes, its to work those muscles into being stronger, so she has more control. It worked for me, but I was also 12, not 4, so it may not be much help.

Bonnie - posted on 02/03/2011

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It kind of depends... I stop my son from wetting the bed by reducing his drinking at night time. If he was going to bed at 8pm then no drinks for half hour or hour before bed and will get him to go potty before he went to bed... that was around 4-6 years old when he stop... but I was told boys are harder to train

Helen - posted on 02/03/2011

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Sometimes they just go into such a deep sleep and they wet it will happen when she is ready. talk to your doctor to see if she/he can help or your public health nurse may have suggestions

Rebecca - posted on 02/03/2011

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I do believe every child is different too!! but also i believe it should be called 'toilet development' not 'toilet training'. I think this term alone encourages parents to start to train their child even when there bodies are not developed yet to toilet. We think there is an age where we must start to train a child -get out the potty, then put on the underwear get rid of nappies take to toilet ect ect. We think by doing all these things the child will develop. But we are doing it the wrong way round - we should be looking for these signs of development then provide the opportunities for them. I think when we start to try to train a child before their bodies are developed it usually dosnt help at all - adds stress to child, feelings of failure from the parent and the child. Its the same for night time wetting. I think the childs body will develop in time and taking them to the toilet at night is getting their bodies use to going to the toilet during the night and not getting the body to not have to go at night. Also im a mum who has had a child with sleep apnea for the last three years and sleep disturbances and sleep deprivation is alot worse then a child wearing a night nappy. If a child is not getting proper sleep because they are being woken in the night to go to the toilet then their toileting development will be delayed or impacted. A good night sleep will ais your daughter in all her areas of development and I good night sleep for you at this stage of being a mum is so much more important then her night time bed wetting so i most definitely would keep the night time nappy on her - she will get there :)

Fenella - posted on 02/03/2011

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I feel much the same - my son will be 4 at the end of the month and we have been trying to get him through the night for months now. We discuss with him every night why he needs to wear a nappy - because he is not a baby, but I am going to put pullups on him until we have at least 5 to 10 dry nights in a row. He stops drinking at 4pm and still wets in the night after having another two toilets stops! I have tried a chart and carrots, without any luck!... I feel SO much better after reading these posts. Thanks everyone!

Christabel - posted on 02/02/2011

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Both my daughters wet the bed ubtil they were 7. My nephew was the same. I think every child is different because it a physiological response. You can't punish a child for night wetting.I was stressed like you until I was made to understand this. After this I let up worrying about it and my youngest had Pull Ups until she was seven but even now if she is especially tired she will still wet the bed. She is a deep sleeper. My advice - keep using Pull Ups and she will certainly grow out of them annoying as it might be for you to keep buying them!

Tana - posted on 02/02/2011

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I feel so bad for you and totally understand what your feeling!!! my son is 5 and still wets the bed and i hate it!!! i really cant stand it to the point that it makes me really mad when it happens! i know it is not his fault, but I just feel like why wont you stop peeing the bed???!!!!! look it up on the internet though. it is really common for girls to go to about age 6 wetting the bed at night and boys about age 7. dont worry hun, it will stop eventually. its nothing your doing or she is doing wrong. it just means her kidneys haven't matured enough to produce the hormone to signal the bladder to do its job. look it up. dont be depressed or upset. your child will stop I promise!!!! make her wear a nighttime pull-up to sleep in also so your not changing the sheets all of the time. my son goes 6 hours for sure staying dry so I always wake him up at 2am to pee and then he goes back to bed until its time to go to school. find what her pee patterns are and that should help too.

TRACY - posted on 02/02/2011

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Have u tryed not giving her anything to drink after a certain hour. That's how i use to do to my son.

Mavis - posted on 02/02/2011

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I know that this is going to sound really silly but my mother-in-law heard of it on a TV talk show. I tried it and it worked for my child. Take your child off of "milk" and he/she will stop wetting the bed. I had my child off milk and he almost immediately stopped wetting the bed (he was 5). Then after about 2 years, I asked him if he wanted to try drinking milk again and he did and he didn't have any trouble with wetting again. I know that this doesn't make any sense at all but it did work for my child. I hope it can work for you, too.

Cathy - posted on 02/02/2011

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mydaughter started wetting the bed at fours years old. she had been totally trained from 3 and a half yrs old. then when she started kindergarten, she started bedwetting. i didn't handle it too well. i was pregnant and had a two yr old. i used to really yell at my poor daughter. then i went to see a psychologist. she suggested that i make a contract with my daughter. this really helped. i sat down with her and discussed how important it was that she learn to stay dry. with a new baby coming i would have more diapers to wash. blah blah..... then i told her we would make a contract(promise) with each other. her job was to get up and get dry sheets as soon as she realized she was wet even during the night. she was getting lazy about laying in the wet bed. my part of the contract was that i would never ever get mad and yell at her again. and i would make suer there were always clean sheets for her in the closet. i explained to her that some kids wet the bed just like some kids suck their thum or have blond hair, etc. it didn't change how i lovedher or anything like taht. i loved her nomatter what. this took a lot of pressure of me. sarah stopped waking me up in the middle of the night to change sheets and i got a good night's lseep. and i stopped being so angry with her. my pediatrician promised me that no little girl ever got married and was still wetting the bed. she did grow out of it. and even was able to go on several ovrenight trips with her girlfriends. try not to take it personally, she is trying no matter what. reassure her that this doesn't make you love her less, its just part of who she is. good luck.

ChristiAnne - posted on 02/02/2011

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1 out of 6 children wet the bed until they reach puberty, when growth hormones spur the bladder to grow again. Deep sleepers or small bladders can cause this problem. You can "potty train" when they are awake, but bed wetting is a different ballgame. Do not punish or make your child feel bad, and don't kill yourself trying to get them to stop. You are not a bad parent, and your child is most certainly not lazy. Use the guidelines your doctor suggests, but don't worry until your daughter is much older. Try to get some rest, you are a good mom.

Amanda - posted on 02/02/2011

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My daughter was potty trained at 2, but is still not night trained at 3 1/2, i let her go to bed with out a pull up once but she still woke up 5 times wet. I wouldnt worry too much, sounds like she just doesnt have a strong bladder yet, it will come in time.

Donna - posted on 02/02/2011

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I was told by my doctor not to worry till she is 6. At 6 I took my daughter to a urologist (SP) He said she may be consitpated and changed her diet also gave us an alarm. In one month she was dry. I am now dealing with the same thing with my second child he is 6 1/2 . My 3 year old is staying dry every night. each child is different.

Dee - posted on 02/02/2011

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I had two bed wetters. My oldest daughter told me later that she knew she needed to go potty but she was too lazy to get up and go. Have your daughter help strip the bed wash the sheets and re-make the bed. If she has to put forth some effort she might decide to get up at night and go potty.

User - posted on 02/02/2011

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I have four daughters and 3 granddaughters. 3 of them never wet the bed but the others all have or had a problem staying dry. Our uroligist has told me that he wouldn't worry about it until the oldest is 17 or older. Sometimes it is cause by a small or too large bladder, or an absence of the right hormone. They almost all outgrow it. Just hang in there it will get better.

Alison - posted on 02/02/2011

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i have twin girls who are 4 1/2 and one of my girls has only wet the bed once and the other one wets the bed all the time. She is just a deep sleeper and doesn't wake up when it's time for her to go to the bathroom. I usually try to get her up to go to the bathroom before I go to bed around 10:30, and that seems to help. But sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn't. There really is no rhyme or reason why one wets the bed and the other doesn't. I also have a 9 yr old and when he was little he never once wet the bed! Good luck!

Amanda - posted on 02/02/2011

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I just wrote a really long post and it didn't go up...so here is the condensed version...

My son is 6 and still wets the bed when his allergies start to bother him. I'm pretty much safe only during winter. I just use a waterproof pad and taught him around 4 how to put a towel over wet spots if he wakes in the night. Then worry about cleanup in the morning so everyone can get some rest.

Other things I've found that help:
Stay on top of allergies if she has any. My kid is very allergic to environment and has food sensitivities. When his allergies act up he is much more likely to wet the bed.
We also added a 1 inch foam pad on top of his regular mattress. We haven't had an accident since and he sleeps more soundly. He just prefers a softer surface, but it might work the same/or opposite for your daughter.

Also, sometimes it just runs in the family. My uncle wet the bed until he was in his teens and my sister wet until she was 9. Hang in there!!

Ariesgirl - posted on 02/02/2011

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She will grow out of it, I promise! Don't disturb her sleep or yours. Let it work itself out, otherwise you will be washing sheets or dealing with a disgruntled little girl.

Kate - posted on 02/02/2011

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check out the book "healthy sleep habits, happy child". it is full of excellent advice about sleep and every possible sleep issue you could imagine!

Michelle - posted on 02/02/2011

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While she may be a deep sleeper, she may also be anxious. I would try to not focus on it. With some children, the pressure of trying to stay dry can make matters worse. My children were completely different. My son was dry through the night before he was trained during the day. My daughter was the opposite. With her I ended up going to a padded plastic lined mattress cover. We ended up giving her only water for fluids after 6pm. Potty before bed at 8:30. I tried the wake up routines during the night but this really wore her out. I also worried about something medical being the reason for the bed wetting so I didn't want to do something that may be unfair... SOOOOOO, I changed it to wake up at 6:30 am (around when we need to get up anyway) . I approached it from the point of view of ...We are girls and we need more time to get ready. She really responded to having the 1on 1 time with Mommy. I made a big deal about dry mornings and downplayed the wet mornings. She really did well with this. Dry days we treated like a celebration and wed days we treated like an "oops, I know you will be ok and do better". Trying to create a no pressure approach worked for us.

Jodi - posted on 02/02/2011

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My son wet the bed at night until at least age 5! When he started Gr 1 it was a new transition for him. All Day every day, and he started wetting the bed again for about a month until he got used to the new routine and expectations!

Jenni - posted on 02/02/2011

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my daughter is 6 years old and she is wetting the bed too so maybe try giving her a little to drink before bed or try stopping drinks at

Indu - posted on 02/02/2011

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Okay firstly restrict her intake of water around 2 hrs before bedtime. Then wake her up at least once durng the nite . Good Luck

Jill - posted on 02/02/2011

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My 4 year old still wets at night. He gets a small reward for staying dry at night but it doesn't happen very often. Try not to stress, it will happen. We just keep him in Pull-Ups.
To me, it's more important that he gets a good night of sleep. When he's sleep deprived it effects his concentration, his ability to learn and his attitude/behavior.
Best of luck to you.

Carol-Ann - posted on 02/02/2011

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My daughter was toilet trained both for day & night by the age of 3/3.5. However last year she started having accidents, a lot during the day & at night. I put it down to my new relationship & her having to 'share me'. She's now accepting her step dad & day time accidents are few & far between. We've been using pull ups on her at night until a few nights ago. She goes to bed at 7.30/8, we wake her at 10.30/11 when we go to bed to get her to go to the toilet by herself which she does & usually does the toilet. She has not had any night accidents since we stopped using pull ups. We give her lots of praise for having a dry bed in the morning & we have introduced a reward chart. Once she has enough 'stars' on her chart she will be rewarded with a present albeit a small one. We strongly believe this will help her on her way to being dry all the time, night & day. We're hardly even having occasional accidents which is great as she will be starting school in August this yr, she's 4.5 now. All children are different & whilst some may have medical problems others just take time (sometimes years) before they stop bed wetting at night. We don't let our daughter have drinks after dinner time so no later than 6.30pm. We still have to ask her to go to the toilet even if she doesn't think she needs as sometimes she goes for a long time without going. I hope this helps & I can see that other mothers have made similar remarks as myself. Good luck.

Barbara-Ann - posted on 02/02/2011

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My daughter is just short of turning 8. I just started waking her up at 11 every night to go to the bathroom. She wakes up on her own around 3 am to go to the bathroom. I truly believe that when it is going to happen, it will happen. Stressing out on what other people say or what you might think is normal isn't worth it. Have some patience. Your child is only 4. It will happen. :-)

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It makes me so cross that there seems to be this pressure to get our children dry at night. My eldest wasn't dry until she was almost 6. I used to put her in the shops own brand of pull ups (they're often a lot cheaper & just as good). I was a bedwetter til about 8 and remember being 'told off' for it. I took a very relaxed approach to my daughter and just waited until the pull ups were consistently dry every night for almost a month. This happened to coincide with her questioning why her younger sister didn't wear 'bedtime' knickers (as we called them) I explained and she said she wanted to try. We had a couple of accidents but she soon cracked it WHEN SHE WAS READY.
There is should be NO shame in children wearing bedtime knickers/pants it means both you & they get a restful nights sleep which is so much more important to their all around development.
Good luck, be patient and please please don't let it get you down.
Remember all children develop at different rates xxx

Joy! - posted on 02/02/2011

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My son is going to be 6 yrs old next week and he still wets the bed almost every night. It is very normal. I was an extreemly sound sleeper and wet my bed every night through elementry school, about once a week in jr High, and once a month in high school! the last time I wet the bed was when i was 22 years old. ( I am 34 now) Hopefully she will not take as long as I did, but she will grow out of it!!! Bodies and hormone levels change. Just put her in pull-ups and do not make her feel bad. She cannot help it :)

Adeline - posted on 02/02/2011

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some time it happen, my daughter was around 9, when it stopped, it was once in awhile. all children are different, stress as alot to do with it.

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