Lea-anne - posted on 07/27/2010 ( 129 moms have responded )
Hi there, I've been divorced for almost two years. I have a 7 year old son who loves his Dad and myself to bits!! Although his Dad and i are no longer together, my son has seemed to stabalise from the trauma of the divorce. Currently he sees his Dad every Monday and Wedsday night and every second weekend and half of all holidays. His dad's family is here and all his friends since nursery school are here in RB to. My boyfriend is planning on a career move and has asked me and my son to go with him. He has also stated that i will be provided with a job there in Margate / Port Shepstone area. My son through influence of his Dad does not really respect my bf, but is slowly but surely getting there. But when we suggested the move to him, he said that he definately doesnt want to go, cos he knows that he wont see his Dad as often. I am torn in two here fellow moms. And i know that his Dad is going to fight it in court. What should i do? What would you ladies do?