Ever feel like your mind is silent?

Bradi - posted on 08/18/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Two kids and two entrepreneurial ventures, mixed with friends and family that I try to keep close equals one "non-silent" mind. So, I re-read an upload by MyWorkButterfly.com's (in partnership with COM) member and life balance expert Diane Lang, and here is what she said:
(After you read- please share your advice on how find some silence!)

1. Meditation - I'm probably not the best at meditation because I end up falling asleep but what I did learn is: if I fall asleep from meditation or the gratitude checks ( see below). I end up with positive dreams & good visions of what is going on in my life.

2. Gratitude checks - it was a perk of using gratitude at night. Right before bed, I start my 2-3 minute gratitude check. I start talking to myself about what I'm grateful for and before I know it, my mind is quiet and I have gotten rid of the baggage of the day. Sometimes, I sit in silence and sometimes I fall asleep but either way I'm in a peaceful state.

3. Connecting with nature - it could me meditating outside or just talking a walk. Most people agree if you can find a quiet spot where you are in tune with nature, you will reap the benefits of quieting your mind. If I can find a quiet path, I walk and clear my mind at the same time. I figure I can burn calories while de-cluttering :)

4. Exercise - I had a friend tell me, that when they swim I can clear my mind. I had another friend tell me, when she walks on the treadmill or does lunges, it clears her mind. For me, walking in the park works. If you love exercise and it clears your mind then your getting all types of benefits. Exercise is great for the heart and cardio, it reduces your stress hormones, produces endorphins, burn calories and clears your mind - wow!

5. Writing - Free writing works - just write, don't think about what to write just write what comes to you. It doesn't matter where you write or if it's on paper or your computer, it's just about clearing your mind.

6. Flow - if your doing something you truly are passionate about , you will end up in flow. Flow is when you don't even realize how much time has passed because your completely involved in the activity. It doesn't matter the outcome just the journey because your doing it for the passion/love of the interest/hobby.

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Becky - posted on 08/21/2010

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Never really thought about it much, but I do a lot of what you mentioned unconsciously. Writing has always helped me out when the mind is in turmoil, helps to allow me to put things in perspective. I walk to clear my head, out in the woods if possible, but down to the park or simply around the block if not. I'm always reminding myself to be grateful for what I have now because it wasn't long ago that I had nothing at all. And I often find myself distracted til all hours of the night with homework, reading fun books, or working on something for my daughter.

Mostly the writing doesn't clear my head, but helps me to pick out the important thoughts in my head or discover what I truly should do when it's a difficult situation.

Walking in the woods helps to put me at peace and relax. It allows me to put my issues aside to simply enjoy the sights and sounds of a more primal environment.

Aleid - posted on 08/19/2010

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Silence, not a lot, but I do exercise and gratitude checks and it works to at least not have an overflow...