Meg - posted on 06/01/2012 ( 31 moms have responded )
He often expresses concern about lateness of bedtime (sometimes as late as ten, but then again the child still naps), but he won't assist with dishes, bath, dressing for bed or teeth brushing unless I ask. And many times he won't do it until minutes or hours after I have asked, which kind of defeats the purpose. To avoid constantly fighting, I just end up doing everything, which i really resent. I am tired from working all day (I am the main earner too!) so when he refuses to proactively and/or cooperatively help, it basically means I don't get as much rest as I need. Help! I am thinking of suggesting counseling to address his very frustrating procrastination!! Any thoughts?