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Husband and Resentment

Angie - posted on 07/27/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My husband and I have been married for over 6 years and he recently moved out 2 weeks ago. Over the past few years he has held everything in and now all of a sudden he is telling me that he has issues/problems with our marriage. He says he can't take it anymore and that he is unhappy. I tell him I am sorry and I wish I would have know the things I did wrong or that bothered him so we could have talked. Now we have a 18 month at home and I work full time. He comes and goes when he wants and does not have a plan to come home. I am so confused and not sure what to do or what to say. No matter what I say it is wrong and he is always so angry at me. I want to do what is best for our baby but how can someone be so mad at you? I don't believe in divorce and I don't want to give up. How can I keep trying when my partner pushes me away....

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Chaya - posted on 07/27/2012

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He's an adult, at least legally. If he can't form the words to say what he means, that's something wrong with him. My ex took up with a coworker like five years ago, I refuse to take him back. He can't handle how "weird" I am. His relationship with his coworker didn't work out, he's still trying to get me to take him back. I told him my dad taught me to give the toys I don't use anymore to those less fortunate. (Facebook)
If you don't belive in divorce, what do you believe in? I don't get the logic, I'm opposed to abortion, which isn't to say I don't believe in it, I simply refuse to participate. Divorce happens wether you participate or not. You can choose not to get one, but if your husband is that immature that he can't tell you what he means, go on with your life, you're better off without him.At some point you're going to find someone with the maturity to be able to say what he means and you'll be sorry that you didn't get divorced at that time. Waiting just complicates matters

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