Melissa - posted on 05/11/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
Me and the man I am with now, broke up about 8 months ago. I was told I could not get pregnant as is. Well....I got with someone for about a month in all that and just happen to get pregnant. I didn't know when me and my ex got back together. Now the biological father wants to control everything or he wants nothing to do with the child. Even down to he does not want the man I'm with (which he has been amazingly understanding through all this) to be called dad at all, even though he is the one that's going to be there 90% of the time. So I'm pretty much on the verge of just writing him a letter stating he has no rights to the baby. Not sure how to word the letter and if he does come back to see the child I want stipulations in place. Can I get some help with the letter please? I want to be sure what to put in the letter and what not to put in the letter. Thank you.