Kayla - posted on 03/22/2010 ( 20 moms have responded )
Ok so I am having kind of a moral delema and I need some motherly input. I am a single mom of my 2 1/2 year old little girl. She is amazing and I couldnt be happier. I am trying to do "the right thing" by her but I am having a hard time with it. Her father and I broke up when she was only 6 months old. He was cheating on me and plus he was completely seperate from our lives. He never took part in her care or played with her or anything. He has recently started a relationship with her when she was about 2 and its been pretty consisent. So anyway I have started seeing my exbf whom which I dated in high school. My ex and my babies dad hate each other so I for see it causing problems if I let the relationship get serious, especially if I moved in with this guy. My daughters father wants me to consider another chance with him for our daughters sake but I just dunno if he has changed enough to think it will be different. My high school bf really makes me happy and I can see him in my future. But in terms of my daughter I feel like my daughter would rather me be with her dad and not this other guy. Do you think it will really effect her emotionally growing up with her parents not together? Will she resent her step dad who ever her will be? Should I ever consider taking my daughters father back after him ruining our family in the first place? I just want her to have the best father even if its not her biological father. I am just having a hard time deciding what is best for her!! Any input would be super!