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any single moms out there who are just starting to date again

Chequita - posted on 06/27/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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hi moms im now deciding if i really want to be in a relationship or not..i have this guy friend who is extremely nice to me will do anything 4 me if its within his grasp...but i am very selfish and i can admit tht about myself. i love my own space i like not having to check in with anyone but i would like the company of a good man from time to time and i really wouldnt mind being in a relationship with someone but the problem is this guy really isnt my type he is 6 yrs older than me, 4 kids from a previous relationship who are a lot older and he has recently been staying with me until his place is ready and he has been getting ON MY LAST NERVE!! im just not used to having a guy around this much and i hate it and im afraid tht im kind of pushing hm away because he is irritating me so. but like i said he is a good guy and i dont want to just let him go completely just yet but i know tht im not ready 4 what hes looking for right now..do i let him go or or stick it out?

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Courtney - posted on 06/28/2012

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Before I worked things out with my baby's father I was in a similar situation (he just wasn't that much older lol). I was irritated and no matter how nice he was, I was NOT having it! I wouldn't call it selfish but I mean when you have been through so much, a man can't really change that if emotionally you are still going through it. I'll admit the company was nice every now and then but I wasn't quite ready to make that leap into a relationship especially because I wanted to work things out with my ex/father of my child.

I wouldn't recommend sticking it out because if you really wanted him, obviously you could have him! I think you are just wanting to test out the waters but nothing too serious. Theres nothing wrong with that! You have every right to be picky especially when it comes to your heart.

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