Apologies

Nichole - posted on 07/22/2009

I just want to say thank you to all the moms who have stuck up for me in this thread. You all know I would never say anything mean to another mother that hasn't said something mean first to any of us. I don't tolerate that anywhere, weather it be in my house or a stupid internet thread. If you want respect you have give it first and if other mothers are being disrespecting that they should know they are going to get it right back, even if it's not me saying the stuff back too you. Their have been numerous fights on here because mothers think that its their way or the highway. Just because you don't agree with something another mother does with her children or even herself you should never put anyone down for the way they are parenting. Too many mothers on here think that just because they did some thing a certain way that everyone else needs to do it that way and if it's not done that way they think the parent is wrong. Keep in mind every child is different and every area of the world is different. People do different things with there children and no mother should ever come at another mother and tell her she is wrong for doing something. If you don't like what another mother is doing them post in that thread. Don't be mean to one another for no reason. I never start arguments but if someone is gonna call me a slut or tell me I am doing something wrong with my child you better believe I am going to defend myself.
I want to say again that I thank you all and I am going to keep this thread closed!

Jessica - posted on 07/22/2009

I think there seems to a lack of communication here. Because you are basically saying what I was trying to convey in a more direct way. I am sometimes unable to express thoughts or views in the most correct manner, I did not state my belief of either side of the argument and I don't know where you got the idea that I thought Nicole was wrong. I also stated that this was my BELIEF, an OPINION I hold. And everyone is entitled to one! I did not state that I thought these people should get away with rulebreaking and yes, everyone involved should have had the same happen to them. Having an opinion does not entitle anyone to be rude or offensive.

Missy - posted on 07/22/2009

Okay, I'm going to end this thread now. From here on out lets not dwell on what has already happened. Lets keep in mind all the rules from here on out and if someone doesn't then I will block AND let them know why. Okay!?! I really hope that this will be the end of it, I really do.

Jesica - posted on 07/22/2009

It is valid and beneficial! If someone is being singled out because Missy or any of the mods thought that Nichole was the worst its not good enough. As others have said, it was not just Nichole and all she was doing was standing up for herself and the other mothers that were being attacked. It should have been everyone that said anything nasty to her. I guarantee you and everyone else in this community that IF someone even dares enough to call me a slut or a whore because I'm not married and I have sex before marriage, they will know exactly how it is. And if they can't take what I have to say, they are better off keeping their mouths shut. It's the same with everyone else. If you post something that you know will offend someone, you better post it knowing your going to get attacked even if it is only as self defense or someone standing up for the person getting attacked in the first place. The general rule that we were all told growing up, treat others they way you want to be treated. So, the ones that were attacking Nichole in the first place were treating Nichole the way they wanted Nichole to treat them. It's as simple as that. The whole, Nichole was in the wrong, is crap. The second admin was notified that Nichole was being called a slut it should have been taken care of RIGHT AWAY. Not let it continue until admin has had enough with the way Nichole was defending herself.

Jesica - posted on 07/22/2009

It is valid and beneficial! If someone is being singled out because Missy or any of the mods thought that Nichole was the worst its not good enough. As others have said, it was not just Nichole and all she was doing was standing up for herself and the other mothers that were being attacked. It should have been everyone that said anything nasty to her. I guarantee you and everyone else in this community that IF someone even dares enough to call me a slut or a whore because I'm not married and I have sex before marriage, they will know exactly how it is. And if they can't take what I have to say, they are better off keeping their mouths shut. It's the same with everyone else. If you post something that you know will offend someone, you better post it knowing your going to get attacked even if it is only as self defense or someone standing up for the person getting attacked in the first place. The general rule that we were all told growing up, treat others they way you want to be treated. So, the ones that were attacking Nichole in the first place were treating Nichole the way they wanted Nichole to treat them. It's as simple as that. The whole, Nichole was in the wrong, is crap. The second admin was notified that Nichole was being called a slut it should have been taken care of RIGHT AWAY. Not let it continue until admin has had enough with the way Nichole was defending herself.

Jessica - posted on 07/22/2009

I've noticed valid comments from both sides of this argument! And what I have also noticed is that throughout this thread I have got this feeling that us mummy's are at war! Nasty comments WILL happen! It's human nature to defend your safety, lifestyle, religion and beliefs with a lot of aggression! This first line of defense is attack! However, I belive that we as not only evolved beings with the ability of carefully thinking are thoughts and actions throughts before saying or doing and using persuasion instead of aggression and force, but we also have the advantages of being a Mother! The advantage being that we ALL want the best for our children, we ALL want the world to be a better place for our children to grow up in. Unfortunately everybody's opinion on that will vary depending on morals and ethics whether learned, observed or philosophically attained. This is the reason why we should ALWAYS try to be the best role models for our children in everything we say and do and not just in everything they see and hear. My belief is that this argument in neither valid nor benificial to ANYONE!

Missy - posted on 07/22/2009

Well, the last time I tried to close this thread it was opened again, so I don't know what to say. I will NOT step down as administrator. If you don't like my way then you are free to leave. You were blocked because of the language you used and the name calling. I look at all your posts for a long time and for many days before I decided that you would not improve the way you were behaving. In the recent messaging from you you have a better and more uplifting attitude and I thank you very much. But I will NOT step down. I started this group and I will remain here.

Jamie - posted on 07/22/2009

We arent saying look up the past. I want to know who blocked me. And if you had told people why you blocked them when it was done you wouldnt have to go looking for things. I think since you cant be fair to the group as a whole you should step down as admin and let someone else take over. It is obvious you cant seem to say when. If nichol was blocked for something and entire thread was basically out of hand dont you think it wise to close the whole threat and stop all the non-sense? Rather then punsih one person for a whole group of people. You just stated you singled her out because you were fed up, then why let these threads remain open?

Missy - posted on 07/22/2009

Okay, I was not appologizing and I will stand by what I did because I felt like she needed to be blocked, why did I not block others, I couldn't tell you, maybe I was so fed up that I only blocked who I thought really needed to be. The truth is if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. I feel like if you misbehave you should already know that and I shouldn't have to talk to you and say, uh-oh, look what you did wrong you naughty little girl, now you have to sit in time-out. Act like adults please. Respect others and I don't have to block anymore. If you are able to post now, what does the past matter? Next time I have to block I will let you know why. I don't have the time to look up everyone's bad behavior from the past and prove anything. Can we please just take this and get on with it?? I'm tired of feeling like I have to defend all my actions.

Melissa - posted on 07/22/2009

I did block my own best friend ok to be fair. Just because Ididnt tell everyone does that matter. Should there be a block list .NO! Its private.

Rachel - posted on 07/22/2009

Hi Nichole, i agree with you completely!!!!! I was involved in the thread that missy is talking about and the only thing you did was defend yourself and us other mothers, I WILL SAY THANKYOU TO YOU, because i'm sure you were sticking up for me at some point through that convo. I better be careful or else i might get blocked for being on your side.lol.(JOKES) When all the shit started between Mellisa Donnelly and Amanda i stuck up for Mellisa and got nothing but extremely rude and nasty comments from Amanda and yet when I REPORTED HER FOR THIS NOTHING HAPPENED!!!!! She did'nt get blocked at all she was able to keep posting nasty hateful things to whoever she wanted to and now i think i know why, Mellisa Anderson is her friend!!!!!!!!!! So if we all become friends with a moderator does this mean that we wont get blocked and we'll be able say whatever we like??????????? Oh i also have a question for Missy, were the other people involved in this blocked too, because i seem to remember that they were just as bad if not worse than Nichole, and why is it ok for some to be as nasty and horrible as they like, but it's not ok for others?????????? mmmmmm it kinda seems like a lot of double standards happen on this site!!!!!

Nichole - posted on 07/22/2009

You are absolutely correct things have gotten out of hand on here a lot. I know their have been posts that I have made that I shouldn't have and I agree that if one person gets blocked then so should the other cause it does take 2. The first time I got blocked I was in an argument with one person and when I came on and tried to post I couldn't but they were still posting. It made no sense to me, that was the first message I sent to ask why (and got no response). I also post in a lot of different threads and a lot of other communities so I won't know either which one I blocked for..
Hopefully things will change for the better..:)

Jamie - posted on 07/22/2009

Totally agree. I think many people have gotten out of hand on here. Its not uncommon when emotions get involved. 9 times out of 10 it only pertains to that post and everyone is find outside of that. And if someone gets out of hand and breaks the rules they should be blocked, however, it takes 2 people to get into a heated argument, so both people should be blocked and notified for which post they were blocked. I know i post on her many times a day and cant remember everything I have said on every post. Not to mention I often do this while at work and have other things going on, what I post on here may not stick in my brian. So if I do something to deserve getting blocked I would liek to know what and why, so that I can avoid this in the future. And her apology was total BS and I wouldnt take it.

Nichole - posted on 07/22/2009

Jamie, I agree with you completely!!! One of the first rules for this site is to have respect for others and ignoring peoples messages is disrespecting. Don't you think? I am taking this up with Lisa Brand. I think the community would be run better by someone who actually cared enough to explain why were getting blocked. I know I can be bitch some times and so can any one but getting blocked and then being ignored is just rude!!! And her apology was only to shut me up because I am proving her wrong.

Jamie - posted on 07/22/2009

nichole, not to add fuel to the fire but i kind of find her apology a little bit of BS. She did not apologize to you for what she did, but apologized you felt you were singled out. Not trying to be mean, but I too was blocked and dont feel it was appropriate and would like an explanation. And a real apology not some fake attempt at one.

Nichole - posted on 07/22/2009

There's no tone in writing something. Tone is the quality of a person voice. Meaning if it were said, not written. I will stick up for other mothers and I have reported others before I have said anything at all. But when emails are ignored about people bashing other mothers and myself included then YES I will defend myself and mothers and if I didn't violate any terms which I haven't them I don't expect to be blocked.
Thank you for your apology though.

Missy - posted on 07/22/2009

There is nothing wrong with sticking up for people. I am tired of doing this with you Nichole, if you don't like why I blocked you then I'm sorry, but I did and I showed you why I blocked you. My moderators and I are trying to make this a better group so we need to not threaten people at all, whether you are defending someone or not. Your tone is also included in this whether you feel like you were in the right or not. Im sorry you feel like you have been singled out, but if you let it go than so will everyone else. Let's please move on!

Nichole - posted on 07/22/2009

Thank you for everyone sticking up for me and I still say I deserve an apology and here is my side of the story.
The posts that you dug to find happened weeks ago(Notice how she left the dates out)
This wasn't said by me. It was copied and pasted for Amanda passmore to see she was being mean to this poor girl who was crying out for help...
my sugestion is to have not gotten knocked up by chester the molestor in the first place and try and educate your kids about NOT HAVEING SEX BEFORE THEIR ADULTS! and not to have sex with weirdos. this is truly a shity situation and I think you should be getting restraining orders if you have not allready done so. change your names and relocate. If you dont he will probably make do on his promiss and hack you guys to bits. and for future refrence NEVER LET A PSYCHO INTO YOUR LIFE!
In all of those posts if you go to the original threads you will CLEARLY see that I was sticking up for the mothers that were being bashed by people for either having children to young or having children with the wrong people. I would never out and out just stay any of those things to anyone.
So, try again Missy!!!! PLEASE.
Their are TWO sides to the story, I only stand up for people when they are being called names and mothers are putting other mothers down. Their are plenty of mothers are on that think its wrong to have sex before you are married and they will call you every name in the book if you didn't wait. So me defending myself and others is wrong...WOW!!! What is this world coming too???
Myself and Melissa Donnelly have been singled out of plenty of threads and blocked for no reason because for some reason someone doesn't like us.
I am sorry that I stick up for other mothers.

Missy - posted on 07/22/2009

Okay, girls. Rhonda was blocked for a while. When we block, it only lasts so long and I have said this a lot of times, please get that. I posted all the stuff that Nichole said because she wanted the reason why I blocked her and that is what I provided. The whole point is for us to move on from what happened. Let's better ourselves from here on out. I'm tired of this discussion and from now on I will let you know why I block. But please understand that you should not add something to a tread unless it will be helpful. If you can do that there should be no reason for the blocking. I hope everyone understands because I'm tired of this conversation. I am all for more moderators but I get to chose them so if you feel like you'd like the job, I'll look into it but you have to let me know.

Jeanine - posted on 07/22/2009

seriously u all should read down through this thread and BE ASHAMED of your selves you are grown women / mothers / Wives .. My god is this the way you want your child to see you behave as an example .... This group was made for support for mothers , yeh ok there were some fake people making up names/stories taking advantage etc but they should be banned right away no further discussion about it. This seems more like a high school cafeteria where all the girls are just at each other. I dont care how old u were when you had children or if your married these things do NOT make you a good mother ! you do not need to be married to a man to be a good mother . Iam a young mom of 2 girls .I would hope to god i taught them well enough to know if you have a disagreement with someone to talk it out on an intellectual level instead of put downs / name calling and whatever .... what u believe is what u believe . It doesn't mean someone else has to believe the same thing !!! Please do not be so closed minded . That's what makes this world such a bad place for our children to grow up in...close minded people who think if you dont live like they do or believe what they do ie marry before you have kids etc. your a bad person >??? Or if you have kids young your stupid or dumb .....on and on ... people make mistakes one day your daughters may make a mistake is that how you would like people to view them ???? i had a baby at 19 and i looked even younger , I found people always looked at me like what is the child doing with a child, but trust me when i say this ,my child does not go without anything, she is happy, well adjusted and i pride myself on how well i took on the responsibility of her while attending university. I hope one day she will see that as something to be proud of and learn from as an example of what it means to be a great mother ..I just think some of you need to step back a second and think before you write ... remember this group is for SUPPORT / questions / advice not for anyone to tell anyone else just what they think of each other lives or lifestyles ...I believe anyone causing trouble in any way shape or form should be banned !!!!!!!!no offense to anyone... but who needs to come on here for drama my god . Dont people have chaotic lives enough and enough stress in their lives to deal with ????? than this ?????. Just think you should all step back and remember what this forum is for ???? just my opinion

Carrie - posted on 07/22/2009

well i'm on nicholes side, she was sticking up for me when michelle was calling stating she was a better parent, and calling us sluts and said you should not have sex before marriage. there are lots of others that call names and i'll be the first to admit i've done it too, and i do believe that if rhonda were real the way people spoke to her was wrong. But rhonda! she really had me going as i was new to this site, when she told another mum to leave thier kids at home and lock the doors or leave the kids in the car so that this other mother could go out for a meal and drinks with the husband i was shocked you can go giving out advise like that, what she said to do is wrong and if social services new they would seriously look into this. so if anything the moderatator should be haveing a good word with rhonda! and blocking her! cause if she's is real what she believes to be good is really bad, she needs alot of help

Mel - posted on 07/22/2009

im with Michelle i said aweful things to her, because of the fact that i knew she wasnt real. i did be racist and all that, but the fact is, i would never treat somebody like that if they were genuine. and rhonda did say much worse things to people when she started out , then she toned it down

Michelle - posted on 07/22/2009

I read that that post and i dont think Nichole said anything that bad and like everyone else has said its only one side of the story and it was a bad example. The things that Rhonda/sean/hannah said where much much worse but she got away with it time and time again. I think that Nichole and Melissa were singled out. I admit to saying some pretty awful things to Rhonda/sean/hannah, i never took there posts seriously and i took the piss out of them. Why was i never blocked????

Chand - posted on 07/22/2009

I think you are right. It is very bad to block someone from community. we are here to help each other and blocking someone is not a help.
I believe you Nichole that no one can have 4 kids at age 16 (If they didn't got birth as twins).
And second thought It is stupid to have 4 kids in the age 16.

Charlie - posted on 07/22/2009

just read what missy posted ,where is the other side of the story , it sounds like she was more defending herself ! i hope whoever was antagonizing nichole also got banned .

Mel - posted on 07/22/2009

ok just read all that what Missy posted was only one side of the story just like someone else said. and Like we all keep saying this group needs a new admin. i see its ok for rhonda/sean/hannah/amanda whoever the hell she is now, to post things like " your a slut and whore" and "my baby sleeps 5pm-10am without a breast feed and i give it chocolate biscuits for the after dinner snack this is wat you should be feeding the baby cause it needs the extra calories" ; "i think the safest place for a baby is in the mothera arms so it cant wriggle out". Not to mention this persons harrassment continuously on peoples walls, NOT EVEN ONE TIME did i write on her wall and for the few weeks she was here i recieved 3 nasty msgs to my wall with name calling. this person admitted she does not have children that she had fake acounts and that she lied. evertime on of us came back to her, even one of the mods giving her nice advice and telling her if this is what she feeds her baby she needs some help and offering to help her and she gets blocked for this?



Now tell me again, why does this chick get to stay here, and we all get blocked half of us do not get msgs back from Missy and when we do, we get "shes done nothing wrong, just ignore her" responses. So could someone please tell me how this is fair? could someone tell me apart from maybe one paragrapgh of what Missy posted about NIchole, what is so offensive where did she use bad language and why werent the ladies who were dishing it right back at her blocked? hmm

--- - posted on 07/21/2009

she did give her a reason as to why she was blocked. it was spilled out in that long post of quotes that nichole made in just one thread. I am sure from her behavior in that one thread that she probably acts that way in many threads

Hope - posted on 07/21/2009

"BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!!!!!!! I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE THAT DOESN'T WANT TO HEAR YOUR OPINION AS A FEW OTHER ALSO STATED ABOUT THEY DIDN'T WANT TO HEAR YOU EITHER, SO I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO TELL YOU AGAIN, SHUT UP!!!!
Your opinion would matter if you weren't so judgemental of people and called people names out of nowhere. That is why you get in so many fights on here. Grow up, please. For you, your hubby and your children. DRAMA QUEEN!!! "

This honestly is about the only post I found completely offensive. The others I'm sure others thought were, but I'm sure whoever replied to them more than likely said something just as bad, if not worse!

I believe is someone is going to be blocked they should know why so they are aware of what they did wrong. If you are not aware of what was said that was offensive (because we are all guilty of ignorance) and are blocked repeatedly with no answer, you will continue to do it w/ ignorance!

Rhonda was a joke! And honestly, if she wasn't a joke, it wasn't a joking matter and someone should have been stepping in for the welfare of those kids.

Heather - posted on 07/21/2009

wow im not on here too much so im not sure what the Rhonda/Sean thing was but it sounds like it was nasty business...hope whoever treated u bad does apologize

Angela - posted on 07/21/2009

I agree the admin should be giving reasons of why someone is being blocked immediatley. There shouldn't be no hesitation because that shows that you don't have a good reason or you need some time to dig something up.

Jamie - posted on 07/21/2009

Would like to point out Ive called myself a bitch on many occasions and dont find it offensive.



2nd. its fine to block someone. I think her point was she wanted a reason why. i also was blocked by you and emailed you numerous time and still as of today have not gotten a response and do not believe i had done anything at that point to get blocked. maybe in previous weeks but all of a sudden i was blocked with no notice. if i deserved it fine, there have probably been times when i did, but if i wasnt notified but went ahead and asked why was i not given a response?

Jesica - posted on 07/21/2009

sounds like a threat to me

Missy - posted on 07/21/2009

There is a difference between personal attacks and talking to someone. When it happens over and over again and mean and hurtful things are being said then it is attacking. I would hope that everyone would understand the difference. And the whole point is if people can respect others then there is no need for blocking anybody. I am responding to why I blocked and I will do so again if the need arises but it is NOT anything I take any pleasure in, believe me.

Jesica - posted on 07/21/2009

if nichole's replies to what was said to her is a threat or personal attack then every one of us should be blocked.

Lisa - posted on 07/21/2009

Can't we all just get allong, hold hands by the campfire and sing coom by yaaa. Kiss and make up "smooch" make love not war, I could go on all night lol

Missy - posted on 07/21/2009

One of the rules are no threats or personal attacks.

Jesica - posted on 07/21/2009

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Posted by Mama Sheps (3:37 am)
wow! sounds like you don't need an apology maybe just a good booting off the site entirely. those are some pretty hurtful words.
good job Missy on digging up all that crap. I just joined this site and from what I see this mama seems to create a lot of unnecessary drama and I only looked at the first page of threads!


thats only one side of the story.

Jesica - posted on 07/21/2009

I don't see what was bad about nichole's posts. Defiantly don't think that's something to get blocked over.

--- - posted on 07/21/2009

wow! sounds like you don't need an apology maybe just a good booting off the site entirely. those are some pretty hurtful words.
good job Missy on digging up all that crap. I just joined this site and from what I see this mama seems to create a lot of unnecessary drama and I only looked at the first page of threads!

Lisa - posted on 07/21/2009

Is this Rhonda chick still posting? She used to be someone else right? Maybe they should block someone who gives terrible advice. lol WHOOHOOO WHOOOOHOOO WHOOOOHOOO The sirens are comming bringing the men with the white coats with really long sleeves to pick her alter ego up lol

Missy - posted on 07/21/2009

Alright Nichole, you wanted proof so here it is, and by the way, this has been a long project because I do have other things to do other than look at all these old conversations. Enjoy!



And to the bitch Jamie, sorry for my language. No one asked for your negative opinion, people makes mistakes and we learn from them. You need to keep your mouth shut and stay off this post. This girl is hurting here cause he kids are in danger and all you can say is she is dumb. Grow up and get a life cause no one wants to hear your negative stuff on here. Insecure people post stuff like this. Maybe you should go fix the problems in your life instead of criticizing others. Cause I am sure you're not miss perfect.



UMMMM...No, you are the idiot. I am NOT married and I am 28 years old so I guess I shouldn't be having sex? I don't believe in marriage and neither does the man I with but I do call him my husband, that I have been with for 5 years and we have a beautiful child together.

You also need to stay off this post if you have negative comments to say to her that is not what this forum is for. It's for support.



Hahaha...Kate. This is great. She is so perfect, never experience life as it sounds. Wait till she hits 40 and has a mid life crisis and leaves her hubby and her kids cause she never experienced life. Then maybe she will look back and say hmmmm maybe I shouldn't of been so critical.



No one said you were a horrible person for not doing any of these things and just because you waited till you were married to have sex like you were born in 1945 doesn't give you the right in anyway to critize anyone for what they have done in there life. No need to call names either. Go experience some life and then come at as with your ignorance.



Thank you for explaining yourself to a T..Now get off this application just like you requested.



Amanda me and you have ad problems in the past but go back and reread the posts please before you start with me and I have to have you removed from this post also by reporting you.



Melissa, don't even reply to Amanda she has booted off of plently posts due to her ignorance and I know this because I have been one to get her booted. She likes to join into the posts when all the drama is already started and make it worse. She feeds off the drama cause she has nothing better to do with her sad little life.



Cherly i am not sure if that was towards me or the other one that is in this convo...If it was towards her I am sorry. Cause I am not acting like I am holier than thou so I am sure its her.



BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!!!!!!! I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE THAT DOESN'T WANT TO HEAR YOUR OPINION AS A FEW OTHER ALSO STATED ABOUT THEY DIDN'T WANT TO HEAR YOU EITHER, SO I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO TELL YOU AGAIN, SHUT UP!!!!

Your opinion would matter if you weren't so judgemental of people and called people names out of nowhere. That is why you get in so many fights on here. Grow up, please. For you, your hubby and your children. DRAMA QUEEN!!!



my sugestion is to have not gotten knocked up by chester the molestor in the first place and try and educate your kids about NOT HAVEING SEX BEFORE THEIR ADULTS! and not to have sex with weirdos. this is truly a shity situation and I think you should be getting restraining orders if you have not allready done so. change your names and relocate. If you dont he will probably make do on his promiss and hack you guys to bits. and for future refrence NEVER LET A PSYCHO INTO YOUR LIFE!

This is your original post...Please tell you didn't call anyone a name??? You called the father of her children chester the molestor, a weirdo and a psycho. Then go on to bash her about having sex before she was an adult. Was all of that really necessary? This is why no one likes you. Do you even have any friends on the outside?



AGAIN...BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!!!!!



When I sign on I get the notifications that someone has posted something and when I look I still see that Amanda has to put her 2 sense in.

EVERYONE PLEASE REPORT HER. THERE IS A REPORT BUTTON AT THE BOTTOM OF THE SCREEN, THEY WILL LOCK HER OUT OF THIS POST SO SHE CAN'T SAY ANY MORE NEGATIVE AND HURTFUL THINGS TO THIS POOR GIRL WHO ONLY ASKED FOR HELP





These are all comments you had made from one single thread and this was even before the whole new issues with the fake accounts. How can anyone not say that you were making personal attacks against people? And that my dear is one of the rules of this community.

Nichole - posted on 07/21/2009

Yeah, I don't like they removed that either. Cause then you get confused reading stuff some times..lol

Jesica - posted on 07/21/2009

i dont know its been gone for a while and i just as many, wish they would bring it back

Kate CP - posted on 07/21/2009

"i think we need to agree to disagree kate cuz we got this off track. the whole point is just what nichole said."

Agreed. BTW, what happened to the quote option when posting?

Jesica - posted on 07/21/2009

i think we need to agree to disagree kate cuz we got this off track. the whole point is just what nichole said.

Nichole - posted on 07/21/2009

I just think the whole group needs a new administrator.

Kate CP - posted on 07/21/2009

Oh there's not a doubt in my mind that you deserve an apology. I think it's even worse to ignore some one like that. And I completely agree with you: this has taken too long and gone too far. The system needs an over-haul.

Kate CP - posted on 07/21/2009

Okay...teaching a CHILD is something much different than dealing with an adult. And I think you miss understood me or I didn't explain myself very well. Bear with me cause it's hard to type out verbal inflictions online.

I think it's rude to say "I am now accepting apologies". That is not the way to go about getting a sincere and honest apology and moving forward. Even when I'm having my daughter apologize I don't say "I'll accept your apology now." As apposed to later? Saying something like "This really upset me and I think I deserve an apology" comes off much better.

Maybe that's just me. I was always raised to be gracious when giving and receiving compliments, apologies, condolences, etc. So that's my two cents on the subject.

Nichole - posted on 07/21/2009

I do deserve an apology because I have be blocked from this community numerous times and when I ask why I get ignored. If someone is gonna block me then I want to know why and the response I finally got was stupid. I want proof of why I got blocked. I also deserve an apology for being ignored so many times too. You are right I shouldn't have to ask for one but when some one ignores you repetitively and you have write on a public wall to get there attention then yes now I want an apology and I feel I deserve it.

Jesica - posted on 07/21/2009

I don't think its rude. She is owed an apology and if she has to ask for it then that's what she needs to do. Its not different that telling your kids to apologize when they do something to one of their siblings. Or should we teach our kids to not apologize unless they want to??? I for one make my daughter apologize to me before she is allowed out of her timeout. And if someone doesn't apologize to me for being a bitch to me, then I tell them they owe me an apology. There is nothing wrong with that.