Are You still with the babydaddy?/ The reason i ask?

Lydia - posted on 11/17/2009

We're getting married next year on our 12yr anniversary. Very loving (although definately trying at times) relationship. However I am at the older end of the "young moms" spectrum :)

Simone - posted on 11/17/2009

hey i have 3 daughter, my older was with there dad for about 5 years, it was a alright relationship, but it didn't work. i've been with my youngest daughters dad for 3 years now, and i love this man like crazy, we are really good together, 1 day we'll get married, my girls love him, and his really good with them. his my better half and thats how i want to keep it. lol. you need to no why you really want him back before you doing thing eles, he may just want you as something on the side as you said his married. he got married for a reason. he may just want the best of both worlds so think about yourself 1st..

Megan - posted on 11/17/2009

I have an 18mnth old son and im still with the father of our child. It has had its ups and downs but we always work things out and love each other more everyday. We are tying the knot in 1 mnths time and i cant wait.

Charlie - posted on 11/16/2009

we have been together for 5 years , we have a 1 year old boy and another on the way .
We , i am happy to say , are very happy together and grow more in love with each year ( and child )
We are engaged to be married but are in no great rush , we want our beautiful children to be old enough to share in the memory of our wedding day .

We are both very relaxed people who dont let things get to us or waste energy on arguing over little insignificant things and we are always open and honest with each other .

Jamie - posted on 11/16/2009

I am 24 and have 2 kids with my husband of 5 years. I started dating him my senior year of high school and I don't believe just because you are young that you won't work things out with the father.

Ashlee - posted on 11/16/2009

my oldest daughters father and i called it quits after her 1st bday and i have to say that was the one of the happiest day of my life. my youngest babys father are still together and engaged to be married and treats my oldest like she were his. i wouldnt change anything.

Bekki - posted on 11/16/2009

my husband and i have been together for 3 years.. we have our ups and downs.. sometimes i want a divorce but then the fight ends and everything is alright again.. its a huge part of marriage is learning to get through those fights and not just jumping ship when it gets hard..

Christi - posted on 11/16/2009

my husband and i have been married for a year and a half and it hasn't all been great, but our son is the greatest influence in our lives and we are still going strong!

. - posted on 11/16/2009

Im sorry but all those fathers who don't give a f*ck about their kids, give those dads (like my partner with his daughter) who try their damn hardest to see their kids a bloody bad name!
Yes I'm still with my babydaddy, apart from my son and sd, he is the best thing that ever happened to me! We do plan to get married

Amanda - posted on 11/15/2009

im not sure why youre asking but i was with my kids dad for over 5yrs and it didnt end the greatest. i ended it for my kids though. my youngest turns 1 this month and ive been trying to figure out how they can have a relationship with their dad who hasnt lifted 1 finger since day one and we cant even talk without fighting. He is now married, and I have to go through her to get anything accomplished as far as the boys go. i dont like doing it that way but the less stress and fighting around the boys the happier they are and will be when they are older. I make sure she knows what is expected on visits and make sure that if things arent up to my expectations I will take visitation away. things are very ugly on my end because of the past and things that went on. but in the end as long as my boys are safe and happy thats all that matters to me. to answer your question most the moms my age around here do it alone cuz baby daddy ups and leaves

Tabitha - posted on 11/15/2009

hi there i am tabitha and yes i am married and still with my partner for my second child my first didnt work out to many problems but yer i noctice around to that there are lots of womane that arent with there man but some times its meant to be and some times its not .....lol

Ty - posted on 11/15/2009

I am still with my baby's daddy. And we are happy together. We want to get married evenually.

Beth - posted on 11/15/2009

its been 3 years we are engaged we have the normal relationship up and downs but i wouldnt trade him for anything

Carla - posted on 11/15/2009

Girl I am trying to try to get back with my baby father he is married to someone else and this just happen a couple weeks ago and now he is calling me telling me he is going to get a divorce and I am not lying if he does i love him to death and i want to be with him not only for our daughter but for me too ya kno,

Chris - posted on 11/15/2009

I think it would help if you let us know why you were asking these questions!!! :-)

Christine - posted on 11/15/2009

My husband and I have been Married for 1 1/2years been together almost 5 and we are happy. we have our days like any couple but when it comes right down to it we are genuinly happy. if we werent we wouldnt be together. when it comes to my husband and i we are best friends, lovers, eachothers rock and partners. i truly think thats the only way we make it.

i agree with jenna and kendra we wouldnt stay together just for the kids either.....if your not happy then the kids will see that and i truly dont think thats a good example to set for them.

Chris - posted on 11/15/2009

I'm married with an almost 2 yr old and we are still so in love w each other. We had some very hard and stressful times in our lives, but we stuck it out and I can honestly say I love my husband more then I ever thot possible.

Kendra - posted on 11/15/2009

My husband and I have been together since high school, and have been married for seven years. I agree with Jenna that you shouldn't stay just for the kids, but I would do everything I could to try to make it for them. I think it is very important that children see that their parents love each other.

Jenna - posted on 11/15/2009

6 years and have our ups and downs. We have not gotten married yet but it doesnt mean it wont happen. With having three kids a wedding or even going to city hall is more of an expense than we have right now. We are building our family then we will make it official. He calls me his wife I call him my husband but no we are not married. Good enough for the government. Im not going to lie we have our troubles and never would stay together just for the kids sake but after 6 years there must be something to still "fight" for.