Being a single mommy

Nicole - posted on 12/07/2009

thanks the posts have made me feel a little better and I know that my body made to wonderful kids....one thing I need to do is not say negetive things even though they are really young they can understand...thanks everyone.....

Labline - posted on 12/03/2009

hi dear... i know and understand how you feel.... im also a single mom with a 7 year old growing boy.... yeah it's hard to explain to the little ones, in my case i choose to be single, my ex husband is kinda not a family man....... anyways i suggest you must focused 1st how you will raise the kids, disregards the feeling of who will like you.... the scars and extra weight is not a big deal most importantly is that you are a great mother and can be a good wife with a man who is searching for a great family... god bless!

Laurie - posted on 11/29/2009

FIRSTLY UR EX SOUNDS LIKE A TOOL, LIKES SKINNY WOMEN, WELL LADIES LIKE REAL MEN! NOT SUPERFICIAL IDIOTS. ID LIKE TO SEE WHAT CHANGES HIS BODY WOULD TAKE AFTER GROWING 2 BABIES! MY 1ST CHILDS 'DAD' A.K.A SPERM DONOR TAKES NO PART IN MY DAUGHTERS LIFE, GOOD RIDDENS TO BAD RUBISH. HOWEVER I NEVER EVER SAY ANYTHING BAD BOUT HIM TO HER. SHES 11 AND HAS ASKED QUSETIONS THAT I HAVE ANSWERED, I SAID WE WERE YOUNG AND HE WASNT READY TO BE A GOOD DAD, THAT ITS BETTER TO HAVE NO DAD THAN A DADDY WHO WOULD LET YOU DOWN, THAT HES NOT A BAD PERSON, JUST BAD TIMING, NOTHING TO DO WITH HER, SHE IS GOOD ENOUGH, HE AT THE TIME WASNT. SHE ACCEPTS THAT. I TELL HER I LOVE HER ENOUGH FOR 2! I ALSO MENTIONED THAT ALL FAMILIES ARE DIFFERENT, SOME JUST A MUM, JUST A DAD, LIVE WITH GRANDPARENTS, FOSTER FAMILIIES ETC. THAT SHES LUCKY AS SHE HAS A MUM, NANNY, GRANDA, AUNT AND UNCLE . . . I MET MY PARTNER WHEN SHE WAS 4, WE HAVE A 3YR OLD NOW. HE LOVES MY BODY AS ITS MINE, I LOVE HIS AS IT COMES WITH HIS PERSONALITY AND HEART. IF ALL A MAN WANTS IS A SKINNY BODY, HE WANTS A HOOKER NOT A PARTNER. MY BODY MADE 2 CHILDREN, IM NOT ASHAMMED OF IT. I EXERCISE FOR HEALTH REASONS, TO BE FIT TO KEEP UP WITH THE KIDS, NOT TO KEEP MY MAN. YOU SOUND LIKE A LOVELY PERSON WHO GOT BEAT DOWN BY A MAN, WEVE ALL BEEN THERE. STAY STRONG, SHOW YOUR KIDS TO KNOW THERE WORTH X

Sarah - posted on 11/28/2009

I'm a single mother of a almost ten year old girl. All I can say is, if your kids ask about their dad say that he loves them and is away right now. Don't say anything neg, even if thats all there is, they might resent you later for dissing their father. I would like to find someone too, but that hasn't happened for me yet, just keep faith in your heart and know that there is someone out there for you. Not all guys care alot about body types. you want a guy who will love you for more than your body anyway!!

Katie - posted on 11/28/2009

im a single mom too my baby is 5 and he ben asking for his dad morl i till he
that im here ill all was be here for him and say think to you kids about it that what
friends are for to help good luck

Anne - posted on 11/27/2009

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I WAS IN T HE SAME BOAT....MY HUSBAND IS GONE FOR OVER 4 MONTHS N I AM LOSING MY MIND MY 12 YR OLD IS OUT OF CONTROL N MY SIX MONTH IS ALL OVER THE PLACE I AM ONCE AGIAN A SINGLE PARENT WITH NO HELP WITH NO FAMILY HERE ITS HARD I AM HERE ANYTIME U WANT TO TALK I KNOW I CAN USE A FRIEND IN THE SAME BOAT LOOK ME UP ON FACEBOOK ANNE DOUGAN N WE CAN TALK ANYTIME YOUR EX IS AN ASS DONT LET HIM PUSH U AROUND I HAVE A GREAT HUSBAND WHO TAKES CARE OF A CHILD THAT IS NOT HIS DONT WORRY HON THERE ARE BETTER MAN OUT THERE KEEP YOUR HEAD UP I KNOW ITS HARD I UNDERSTAND LOOK ME UP N WE CAN TALK MORE WITHOUT EVERYONE ELSE READING I WILL TELL U MY STORY N ITS SAD BUT GOOD ALL OF THAT