Sarah - posted on 01/19/2012 ( 13 moms have responded )
Im confused. My fiance is a really good guy and he loves our 8 month old. Im just not sure I love him anymore, or that he loves me, or that we really did in the first place. Although I care a lot about him and most of the time we are content to be around each other, I think we have just settled into a pattern because we have been together for 3 and a half years. We argue a lot, and there seems to be a constant power struggle going on between us. I hate the thought of my baby girl having issues because I left her dad but I also fear being stuck in a marraige for years with a man I dont really love, and giving her a bad impression of love and relationships. I dont know... maybe I am just being lazy and not trying hard enough to make it work. If we did decide to end our relationship, how do we keep a good friendship and lessen the negative impact on our child?