bored and lonely......I know Keelan is worth everythin but do i really have to feel like this?

Suzi - posted on 09/13/2010

thanks girls :) i've been a single mummy before and i can do it again yes it hurts right now but i'm strong enough to do this on my own x x

Sarh - posted on 09/12/2010

I'm so sorry to hear that! I as well hope things work out for the best and like Tasha said whatever that may be. You will be less stressed on your own. You have yourself and your 2 babies to worry about and not where a "grown" man is (who should be home w/you!). I was a single mommy for 3-3 1/2 yrs and it was wonderful!!!

Jackie - posted on 09/12/2010

Hmmm. Sounds like he wasnt just going to hang with his buddies to me. Dont mean to sound crude but if thats how hes going to be then your beter off without him. My ex husband was the same way. He worked 20 hours a week while I stayed home with the baby per his request. We didnt have anybody to watch our son so a night out with us was out of the question. He started going out once a week. Then it became everynight. He said he was out with his "boys" but then one day he left his phone home while he was at work. It kept ringing and ringing so I finally answered it and got cussed out for answering her mans phone. Excuse me! Hes my husband! I sent her a few family pics and even a pic od our marriage liscense and wedding photos. I left him after I put his phone in the toilet. I left and divorced him.
I couldnt believe this man. I had just had a baby by him. I also did all his laundry, including, jeans by hand and hung them to dry. We didnt own a mop so I mopped my entire house with a sponge. I was home with a colicy baby all day and he had the nerve to cheat on me.

Tasha - posted on 09/12/2010

Oh Suzi! I'm so sorry! I hope things work out for the best whatever that might be! GOOD LUCK thoughts and prayers are with you!

Suzi - posted on 09/12/2010

not to worry ladies........its sorted now..... he went out tonight to his 'cousins' who i'd never heard of, and didnt come home, this is stress either me or keelan do not need, so i'm ending it. i cant take his shit now. so he's gone...looks like im gunna be a single mummy with two now :(

Sarh - posted on 09/12/2010

Try telling him that sitting at home w/you, watching a movie, ordering in dinner, making dinner for you, or something like that is a way he can help you and help keep your baby safer and also to spend quality time w/you and talk w/you. Tell him this will relieve some stress from both of you, which is what you really need right now! Discuss w/him that it would be easier if the two of you stuck close together through this. He is a guy so he probably wont admit, but he needs help and support through this as well. Try talking to him and explaining it all w/out nagging, and don't tell him what you want to do, ask him if you guys can have some alone time just to talk. Ask him if that will help me.

Make some sense?! I hope it helps!! Good luck and try to relax, don't stress!! :)

Tasha - posted on 09/12/2010

Maybe I dont know but with everything going on with you, being out is his way of dealing with the situation. He feels hopeless and helpless when he's with you because theres nothing he can do to mak it better. I'd talk to him and try to find out whats going on. Remember to not blame or get upset but just tell him how you feel and see if he opens up a bit. Good luck and keep your spirits up this will soon pass and be a memory!

Pat - posted on 09/12/2010

hi suzi,talk to him and see what he say,yes he working but still your feeling count.he should be open with you,tell him how u feel.good luck if you want to talk either here or on facebook pat

Bo Lynn - posted on 09/12/2010

My husband never had a day off when he was General Manager of Arby's and he was pulling 90 hours a week!
"Me Time" is not a god-given right, it is something you earn and is a luxury. Talk to him about getting a second job to fill in those other four days. Idle hands are the devils playground....