Sarah - posted on 04/24/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
So me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years, about 3 months ago we had and argument about him not coming home until 6 am. I had a feeling in the pit of my stomach so i went through his phone, i found that he was sexting another girl and had naked pictures she sent him on his phone from the night he was out late. I confronted him and he said sorry and he wouldn't do it again. I had our son almost 2 months ago. When i went to facebook i found that he didn't sign out of his when he used my laptop in the hospital, i found messages of sexual content with a girl he used to work with. I looked at the date and found that he did this in the hospital hours after our son was born. When i confronted him he said it was harmless flirting, i said it wasn't because it harmed me and they exchanged phone numbers and were making plans to get together. He still doesn't seem sorry and put a lock on his phone and gets jumpy when i go near him when hes texting or somthing on it. Can i trust him? I'm having a hard time getting over it and don't think I will. help?
Me again. I found a text in his phone this morning too, at 3 am i called him and he said he was coming home, but he didn't get home till 430, he texted a girl at 340 asking if she was awake, do you think he was going to cheat? it sounds suspicious. It hurt so bad before and now I kind of feel nothing. opinions? I wanted my baby to have the perfect family but is it best for him if I stay?