Lacye - posted on 11/06/2010 ( 58 moms have responded )
I am just wondering if I'm the only person who thinks this is completely messed up! My bf's ex will not let their daughter come to our house unless she is with her. She said we could come there but only for a few hours and then we would have to leave. Now she lives 3 and a half hours away from us. So we would have to spend 7 hours on the road to go and see his other daughter for just 2 or 3 hours. We don't have that kind of money and when she is told this, she says "Well it's not my fault he lives so far away." Well it's not our fault she lives so far away either. This person has no job, has never had a job before in her entire life, lives with her parents (who takes care of her daughter more than she does because she is constantly on the computer or stuck up her new boyfriend's butt), and acts like my boyfriend has all the money in the world and is constantly asking for money(even though he pays her child support!) We are thinking about getting a lawyer and taking her to court over this but I first wanted to talk to her like adults and try to settle this without going to court. She tells me that she just can't let her daughter come up here alone and that she's her child. I understand that it's her child but it's not that she can't let her come here by herself, she won't. And the environment they are living in is so unhealthy because they have a bunch of animals and on top of that have 11 people living in a single wide trailer! Am I the only person that thinks that it's messed up or what?