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I am 20 years old and have a 6 month old son, I have recently broke up with his father because he cant stop drinking, Im not bashing on him i use to be the same way, a big party animal but once i got pregnant the party didn't seem to stop around me. He drank until or son was about 2 months old and even then only stopped for a week or so, Well anyways i was just wondering if i was to let him take our son for a few hours could he tech not give him back to me because he is on the birth cer. and we have no court order custody or visitations. We are not married, and like i said he is an acholic so i am not sure about letting him take him in the first place and i am thinking about taking him to court for custody, But like i said earlier before i got pregnant i was a big drinker to but i mean since then i got a job and have stop drinking all together, I have only traffic tickets on my record, and nothing else, Him on the other hand, he has 5 duis 4 in the state of wis. and 1 in the state of il., He has a domestic vilonce on his record against me when i was 4 months pregnant with our son, he is a raging acholic and doesnt have a job. So i was also going to take him to court for child support which he wont be able to pay and its not like the state can take his lisence cause they already have it so he would end up in jail. Just please help me make some dessions on what is best for me and my son. I dont want my son to grow up without a father but i think it might be the best thing in this case.. PLEASE HELP ME!!