Mary - posted on 08/14/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )
Ok so i just had my 3rd lil girl a month ago. And before she was born my dh and i had discussed me being fixed after birth but then he said he may want another cause we both really want a boy! But a week before i had her i made the decision to not do it. Well tomorrow im going to get the Implanon birth control put in but discussed vaugley with my dh about being fixed. I just dont think we need another now or in the future. With 3 girls oldest 5 middle 2 and a 1 month old i just really dont want another. I want a boy sooo bad but just dont think its gonna be the best for us. Also hubby works 3rd so its me all day and night taking care of the kids and just with 3 its taken a huge toll on me!
When discussed tonight he says whatever i believe is the best for us is what i need to do. But i really needed his input and didnt really get much of anything from him but him trying to say something just to make me happy. Im worried that if i decide to do this on my own then down the road he will hate me for it.
Input please... i need advice from someone.... anyone...