court order against an ex mil?

Nicole - posted on 03/16/2010 ( 10 moms have responded )




is this possible, because this woman is completely nuts. shes the reason why my ex and i broke up. she would tell him things that i moved back in with my mother because i have a new boyfriend, or i moved back because i wanted to dump him for child support. she would tell him not to help me out with Haley because she lived with me and not there. what kinda mom does that!? shes absolutely nuts. fed my daughter ounces of water at 2 months when her pediatrician said that was a no no. she threatened to kick her son out for staying the night at my house and taking care of his daughter and visiting her. who does that?! she lies about everything. we gotta go to court over custody and she wont let him do what he wants. she needles him. she's willing to go as far as telling the judge i punched him while holding my baby, not true!! so just curious, can i get an order to not see her. i do not trust my baby around her. theres more but this could take ages to explain.

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Ericka - posted on 03/17/2010




I would get a protective order against her asap. I had to get a protective order against my mil and sister in law. They are absolutely nuts and even went as far as hitting me in the face while I was pregnant with my daughter.

Stephanie - posted on 03/17/2010




I had it placed in the court order that my son was never to be left alone with his paternal grandfather since we both knew that he was abusive and when my ex didn't listen the court banned him from even taking him to his grandfather's house (which he also violated and now has nothing).

Nicole - posted on 03/17/2010




thanks guys. i really want to get this done. my ex bf (Haley's dad) is afraid to be a family again because he is afraid he will be kicked out. its really sad and pathetic. She loved me until Haley was born then acted as if this was her child. She would get mad if i didn't drive 20 mins everyday to visit her when i worked full time and had school. She always says im with holding my child. My child cries and freaks out when she is there, and she says oh she has gas. what an idiot. she called my mom to confirm dates, who does that, my mother is aware of the date. and my mom will tell her you know its all better if we get along and you can stop harassing my daughter any day now, and she fights it every step of the day. and i think she needs to be locked up! haha.

Rikki - posted on 03/17/2010




same cara there is no way id leve my son with my mil i cant stand the woman we have to go visit every now and then as my other half feels like we have to but evey time we do i leve wanting to kill the woman she drinks and thinks its ok to hold my son in her drunken state.....if i were to eva break up with my other half i would too be looking into the same thing hun no way in the world would i let my son anywhere near her without me to protect him.....find a lawer who can look into it all for you and maby sugest some ways to go about it all.....i wish u the best luck hun realy hope it all works out i have my fingers crossed for you bigg huggggs dont give up :) xoxox

Cara - posted on 03/17/2010




Try it. My MIL isn't allowed to see my kids because she is a crazy bitch that needs to be locked up!!!!

Samantha - posted on 03/16/2010




I think that if you feel that your baby is not safe that totally get an order against your MIL!!! There are some crazy people in the world and if you have the chance to keep your child away from them, then I would. I am so sorry that you are going through this and if there is any ting you need please let me know. I do hope that things get better! Always remember to do what you think is best.

Take Care,

Kerri - posted on 03/16/2010




I say try it. I would definately be trying to do the same thing. Shes sounds nuts! So i would say either before or will your at the court anyways try it. The worst thats gonna happen is they say that you can't do it. But it doesn't hurt to try!

Meghan - posted on 03/16/2010




I am going through a court action right now and one of my stipulations is that my son is not to be around certain people or left with ANYONE for any amount of time without his father. If you can document everything or wirte down past issues that may help. I know that there are grandparent rights but if you feel that your ex MIL isn't a good influence (for lack of better words) on you baby then be prepared to explain specifically why. Also maybe talk to a lawyer who actually would have legal adivse for you! Good luck hun!

Nancy - posted on 03/16/2010




omg Nicole if I were you I would have dose this already. I dont trust people like that to start with, you never know if she could or would hurt your baby. Your baby is no joke I as her mom would not let her around her unless I was in the room.

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