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Daycare Screams

Jamie - posted on 02/26/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I don't know how to get her to stop. I swear everyday gets worse. I know it's because the lady she is usually use to at daycare is on vacation. But it just breaks my heart to leave her kicking and screaming. She just doesn't want me to leave her. It takes all I have in me to walk away. And when I leave her at my aunts house on Wed's she doesn't want anything to do with me, doesn't care if I leave. I don't know what to do. I hate feeling like my baby is just so mad at me, and now she's acting out because of it. It just breaks my heart. I wish I could stay home with my baby. Anyone else have something similar happen?

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Jamie - posted on 02/26/2009

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Quoting Danielle:

have you asked the daycare person how she does once you leave? or how long she cries for? i had this same problem, but my daycare provider reassured me over and over that my child was done and over it within 5 min.


Yes, and she is fine after about 5 minutes. But she just gives me this glare, like "how dare you leave me" and it just breaks my heart. I know it's not the daycare, she's been going there for over 6 months and now she is starting this.

Jamie - posted on 02/26/2009

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Quoting Danielle:

have you asked the daycare person how she does once you leave? or how long she cries for? i had this same problem, but my daycare provider reassured me over and over that my child was done and over it within 5 min.


Yes, and she is fine after about 5 minutes. But she just gives me this glare, like "how dare you leave me" and it just breaks my heart. I know it's not the daycare, she's been going there for over 6 months and now she is starting this.

Natalie - posted on 02/26/2009

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Oh my I feel you pain.  My daughter is usually so easy going can leave her with anyone.  But when she started daycare 3 weeks ago she turned into a big monster. She screams, cries, throws herself down and yells mommies is gone before I can even take off her coat.  I need the same help that Jamie needs and I need it fast.  Now when she comes home she is stuck to me like glue.  I know she likes it cause when I pick her up I look through the window she smiling and playing.  What do u do?

Danielle - posted on 02/26/2009

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have you asked the daycare person how she does once you leave? or how long she cries for? i had this same problem, but my daycare provider reassured me over and over that my child was done and over it within 5 min.

Crystal - posted on 02/26/2009

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well first of all how old is she, it may be the stage unfortunately, but also if she isn't a talker yet, maybe its something more than just the lady being on vacation. I know its not something that any parent wants to think about but seriously maybe something is going on at the daycare. good luck.

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