Jess - posted on 07/19/2010 ( 86 moms have responded )
I'm 22 will be 23 this september. I have one son who is 13 months old. I had always told myself that I wanted another child so that my son would have a blood sibling. I started dating my boyfriend (he's not my son's dad but he treats my son like he's his own) almost a year ago. He has twin 3 year old boys with his ex wife and just found out he has a 3 month old daughter from an ex girlfriend. We had talked about kids and our future and he said in a few years we'll have another baby. I brought up the topic again and he told me that there is no way we're having another child. He is 32 but I love him to death and he is undeniably my soulmate. I'm having a hard time coming to grips weather I should leave him just in the pursuit of having another baby or to stay and be happy with what I have. I am diabetic and will face complications sooner or later, so my time being able to get pregnant is limited to 1 1/2-2 years. I'm hurt, but I can also see where hes coming from. I just need to know that I'm doing the right thing by staying with him.