Shannon - posted on 06/08/2011 ( 114 moms have responded )
My marriage isnt going very well right now and im not sure how its going to go either. Im finding out that my husband only married me because he lusted after me and felt pressured to marry me. He never loved me the way i loved him. We are both 21 and have been married for over 2 1/2 years and have been together for almost 6 years...we have 2 kids, a son who will be 2 this month and a 7 month old daughter. And im at loss of what to do or think because im told that our sex life was meaningless to him and that he didnt even want to propose to me in the begining and he only married me for sex so now since he is wanting a divorce and he says he doesnt know if he wants to be with me,im confused as to what to do. Do i keep fighing in hopes that he will fall in love with me and love me the way i love him or do i just give up and just stay around so we can raise the kids together. He has talked about if would split up that we could stay "living " together so we could raise the kids together....but why is it to much to ask for love. He only wants the kids, but dont get me wrong i want my kids to have only us raising them and not come from a broken home but i dont know if thats the right thing to do or not. Ive tried continuously to talk to my husband but every time, he tells me he doesnt want to talk to me so i dont know what else to do. Ive prayed and prayed and still waiting for some kind of answer. I never thought this would happen becuase i really thought he loved me but he said he was just acting and lying. How do we fix this?