Brittney - posted on 05/31/2010 ( 127 moms have responded )
I'm 20 and have a 91/2 month boy, Richard Whyatt Morgan he is great. My boyfriend is really getting the hang of having him around. Were all 3 red heads so everyone assumes were one family. My sons birth father, or sperm doner as i call him, doesnt knows that I was pregnat when we were together but doesnt know it was his. He isnt a good guy and including my son has 3 kids from 3 different women, his wifes, mine, and his current girlfriends. He is a drug addict and constantly in and out of jail. I really dont want him back in my life. We split up almost a year ago so a few months before my son was born, we split up because he said he didnt want another son. My son has my familys last name so that isnt an issue but should i tell little Richie about the guy who gave him up? or should I not ruin a good thing. My boyfriend said he thinks its a good idea my ex isnt involved and if Richie wants to call him daddy he wont stop him. I really dont see a point in telling him, the only time I correct people now is if it is a medical issue. So should I just leave it, should I tell him, whats the best thing to do?