Does he still love me?

Alexine - posted on 07/02/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

7

0

0

We broke up because I was having issues and pushed him away. He then decided not to come back with me. We are having a baby in a few days. Haven't been living together for 3 months now. He ignored me for a while and wouldnt speak to me telling me he disnt want to get back together. He has a girl friend, who he tells her eveything he told me when we were togther. We met up to discuss arrangments for our son and i yelled at him for allowing his girl say things to me, he got upset told me she wasnt his girl friend and to ignore what she said. We have been talking a little more now. He texted me the other day that he is excited but freaking out. I was at work so I couldn't text back. Today I had to go to the hospital just to make sure everything is going okay. I called him asking him if he'd take me. He came right away but he tol me to call his mon and speak to her about what was going on I told him no so he called her and had her call me instead. He stayed with me the whole time. He poked my stomach tell him our baby to come out we laughed and talked it was nice. When we first got to the hospital he said he had to show me something he showed me his new tattoo on his back. While we were at the hospital he told me what he had been up too with work and activities how much sleep he gets and things like that. He went to go get some foo came back an was texting someone and he distanced himself from me he seemed upset. Im guessing he was texting his girl friend and she was giving him crap for whatever reason. why does he tell me what he does and shows me his tattoos he's gotten. He looks into my eyes. And smiles at me. I would like to get back with him I still love him. But I don't know how he feels about me. He's keeps things to himself. We were engaged. But are very young. Both 20. I know he is scared about our son being here any day. Before he left he told me he will now just have to wait at home not doing anything waiting for a call. He told me to text him but call him if anything happends (labor)

If you see this, leave this form field blank.
Powered by RESPECT not THUMPS

2 Comments

View replies by

Alexine - posted on 07/02/2012

7

0

0

He doesn't live with her. But I know I have to think of my son first which is what I am doing. I won't bring anything up for discussion that has to do with our passed relationship. The girl he says is not his girlfriend has a 1 yr old as well.

Louise - posted on 07/02/2012

5,429

69

2296

Honestly, I think he is keeping his distance from you but realises that he has to keep a friendship going with you for the sake of his child. I would not read anything into the plesantries or showing you tattoos and stuff. Keep your head level, dont read too much into this relationship as he has a girlfriend. If he loved you he would be trying to get back into your heart and not texting the woman he lives with. Think baby first and then see what happends, but as long as he has a girlfriend you are playing second fiddle. Dont settle for second best, you and your son deserve more than this. Just remember you broke up for a reason!

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms