Hendrika - posted on 06/17/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )
I feel like since I've been married and we've had kids there a lot of changes I've had to make. My husband on the other hand, I feel like he still lives the bachelors life and up till now I've had the mentality of "you do what you need to do and I'll take care of the kids" He does help if I ask with the boys and house work, he really is a great dad and husband, I just feel like he hasn't had to make the same kinds of changes I have since we've had kids. So now I'm pregnant with #3. Hormonal out of my mind and I feel like he just doesn't get how much I do and how much he doesn't do. Now, when I bring this up to him he gets defensive cause he feels like I think he does nothing. So how do I bring this up to him and tell him how I feel with out pissing him off?