Tiffany - posted on 01/26/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
Have you ever felt like somehow down the line you lost who you were? I think after graduating from college, getting married and having our 1st baby that somehow I lost who I was. Being mommy and a wife has consumed me so much that I really have no hobbies and honestly no friends (near where we live anyways). I'm shy and not very outgoing so this adds to my issue of attempting new things but I feel like i"m starting to drive my husband batty because he's always wanting to go do this or do that and I'm left to play the mommy role which makes me resent him for wanting to go and enjoy himself. We've talked openly about it and he understands where I'm coming from and I know all in all it's my problem to deal with, but I have NO clue where to even begin. Has anyone else ever had this issue or are you dealing with this issue. It doesn't help that my husband is in the military so he's always deploying, I just lost my mom who was my best friend and I could talk to about anything, and the closest friend I had here just moved away. So I'm stuck feeling alone I guess you could say....well other than my husband and child of course!