Falling in Love while married

Alicia - posted on 04/29/2010 ( 101 moms have responded )

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I am falling in love with one of my best friends i have had a crush on him for a long time and just recently my feelings for him has gotten stronger. Lets just say he treats me a million times better then what my husband does. He treats me the way i know now i should be treated and not beaten. My husband and i have been fighting for the past 3 years and we will be married 4 years in june. I am tired of getting abused mentally physically and emotionally. I am confused and scared because i do have three lil ones to worry about. oh and that is another thing this new guys loves my kids to death and he is so great with them. I just need some help on what to do please if anyone has any advice please help thanks.

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Anne - posted on 04/29/2010

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Don't stay in a violent relationship. If he is beating you that is not a good environment for the children. Perhaps you should separate from your husband and give yourself time to think things through. Then you can see if you still feel the same about this other person.