Dayna - posted on 11/23/2010 ( 13 moms have responded )
I literally feel like my son's family is pulling me in two. I have been racking my brain trying to figure out how to split my time up on christmas and thanksgiving. I want everyone to have a part of my son's firsts but recently, my boyfriend (The Father) and I have been arguing. Even though we have disagreements we can still put our differences aside for our son. But why can't anyone else seem to do this. My mom hates his mom because of an argument that I had gotten into with my BF. Now she refuses to even be in the same room as the other grandma. If I bring up spliting holidays then she goes crazy. How am I supposed to split my son's First thanksgiving into three houses and his christmas into 3 houses and still make everyone happy? I have no idea what to do for his birthday. I really need some advice on what to do.