Charnae - posted on 06/21/2010 ( 29 moms have responded )
Ok even tho its the day after fathers day im posting this up today cuz i was so upset the whole day yesterday(fathers day). So yesterday i was bein nice and i text my sons father just to say happy fathers day but i didnt want him to hit me back so i said jus hittin u up to say happy fathers day and not to hit me up. His response was dont hit him up. I told him i was tryna be nice and i c i cant be nice...he said u can b nice but dont be nice to me..(slap in the face). i said fine just stoppin by to wish u a happy fathers day, he told me f*#k u...then logged off. even tho he logged off i wrote dude i didnt say anything to u to disrespect u...and i left it alone it alone...:::sigh:::all day i kept thinkin to myself wat did i do to deserve to be disrespected...yesterday makes a year that my son seen or spoken to his father...and that hurts and i dont force nothing on him...i dont keep him away from his father or the total opposite. In the end i came to realize that in a way i was wrong becuz if i didnt put "dont hit me up" then mayb i would of gotten a positive response but then again i kno him and hes not a positive person, he would of came at me in any way...SMH...i just need to vent...