Erica - posted on 11/15/2011 ( 19 moms have responded )
Okay, so my child's father and I broke up for good back in May of this year. The reason being was that, he was very inconsistent and just not very productive with his earnings. So we STAYED into it about money, because i was pissed that we were behind all the time. So now that me and him are no longer sharing the same space I ask that he gives me $90 when he gets paid every 2wks for my son. YES! On;y $90 people every other week! Not even a week! He gets paid on Friday and here it is Tuesday and i have yet to receive a dime from him! It is pitiful! The $90 isn't anything major to me okay, its just the fact that he thinks he can WORK 5 dam days out the week and not give me any money for his son! Like light bill and cable bill so that my son can enjoy his cartoons.. FOOD.. weekend outings.. etc all that stuff takes MONEY! And though i am pursing Child Support (which i didnt want to do) it is taking its sweet time! And in the interm I cant get any help from this guy! So his schedule is 7-3:30 and mine is 10:30-7. I take the baby to school every morning and he is to pick him up from daycare by 6. So alll day yesterday we had be text arguing and all that and so i told him that he needed to have my money ($90) when he brought my son home. So he goes all, "I'm not giving you shyt and yadda yadda yadda.." So i told him to keep my son with him! Now im the scum of the fuccen earth!..Ohhh i abandoned my son and all this and that! Last time i checked i left him with his FATHER!! These guys kill me with wanting to do only the MINIMUM! I didn't make my son by myself! So he was inconvienced this morning to say the least b/c i went to work and my son stayed home from daycare and his aunt ended up keeping him. My attitude about it is "OH WELL!" My son and I are inconveineced every time its payweek and i cant get what i need from him! They enable him! His mother sisters cousins all that! But not me! He WILL be take care of mine even if i have to make him! so he tries to tear me down you know...make me feel bad like i dont give a dam about my kid. Like i left him with some stranger or a flipping babysitter! He LOVES to play the victim! When he knows good and dam well he hasn't given me a DIME!! So if you dont wanna give me any money for him you keep him over there with you and your mama and your sister with your overgrown 30yr old azz! Let me see you get him to school every day and take him places on the weekends and make sure he eats good..clean..healthy and well taken care of!. Prayfully he'll give me the money tonight tho, because i miss my darling even though they live around the dam corner..smh..but i know he miss me too..