Samantha - posted on 01/03/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )
It seems like ever since i had my daughter me and my boyfriend have been fighting non stop. He was laid off not too long after i went back to work so he is home all the time, im sure thats some of the stress. The other is he is constantly blaming me for not having sex with him and that im bleeding all the time. Ok YES i dont have sex as often but for one im exhausted and two after working all day then working when i get home im just not in the mood. The whole bleeding thing well idk how to explain that. I have a normal monthly period. Im just not sure what to do anymore.
He has some drinking issues as well which also puts a damper in our relationship; i mean who wants to sleep with someone who smells like liquor all the time. This gives me some trust issues idk anymore when hes sober or when hes been drinking. I feel that im the one who constantly starts the fight because i feel he trys to get rid of his problems with the alcohol. i need some advice on what to do to control my anger towards him so we can be a family again if there is any hope left.