Elle - posted on 12/08/2008 ( 11 moms have responded )
Sorry, I just joined Facebook and Circle of Moms. I want to keep my profile away from my regular set of friends so I can ask real questions like how are you meeting people out here!?
I'm a 28 year old, with an 8 year old girl and no man to speak of. My options seem to be
1. 25-32 year old guys who think because i'm a single mom I might be good for a non committal sex only relationship. To be honest sometimes I think I should be. But I've tried it and the guy seems great and one slip up and they are gone.
2. Old Guys. Lots of late 30 early 40 types who seem to have no problem looking at a single mom with an 8 year old. But I feel they don't want to know me, just finally find somebody.
That's it! I only seem to find these 2 groups. When do you normally tell guys you have a kid?
Anywhere you know of that's good to meet guys, please don't say lavalife that was a disaster (although i feel like i could write a book)
Thanks and I hope to meet some friends out here!!