Misty - posted on 06/15/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )
my lack of sexdrive has put a huge emotional and physical gap between myself and my husband!! i've tried "just doing it", tried lube, and foreplay, tried alot of different things, and just the thought scares me, like its my first time!!! every time we do have sex it hurts and i end up gettin torn and bleeding!! so the sheer thought of having sex pretty much scares me now!!! how do i get passed this?? how do i go back to enjoying sex?? this has never happened with my other children, why this one??? i want my marriage back!!!