Heather - posted on 04/28/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )
My husband and I just can't see eye to eye on anything, we have moved away from his home town witch was a big city to a small town and he is having a very hard time adjusting! He is also just way to OK with me being the only one who has a job I work 10 hours a day and might be picking up a second job and he has made no effort to look for work, except when I (practly had to force) him fill out applications online, for the local stores. He makes no effort to do things around the house, the only things he does is load the dishwasher and take out the trash....I simply can't do the rest since I work so much! I have tried reasoning with him and he just seems to think the best thing would be for him to go home .... so I say ok but that isn't good enough! Now he wants me to sacrifice all that i have worked hard to do for my family and let him "Take a break" and go home for a month or so! Im at a stand still, he is going to go home but I guess my real question is, do I say he can come back? I don't want him to have to choose between living close to his friends and family or living with his wife and daughter, but that is what it has come down to. AHHH! what do I do, how can I make it right and do what is best for my daughter, because she is the most important thing to me!