Stephanie - posted on 08/10/2011 ( 7 moms have responded )
My bf and I have been together for three years and have a 9month old daughter. He used to be emotionally involved in our relationship and the most sentimental man I knew. After his mom divorced his stepdad of 18 years he made a complete change in his attitude towards our relationship. He no longer shows affection, other than a kiss in the morning before he leaves for work. When I ask him to hug me or hold me he says it doesn't feel right. He says he will always love me and care about me but no longer has romantic feelings for me. I don't know whether to wait it out and see if he comes around or to just move on :/ I still love him and want to be with him, but I do not want our daughter growing up thinking it's okay to settle into a loveless relationship. Some people have said maybe it's just the stress of fatherhood and work, but I just don't know.