Hello to all moms, so i am a 25 year old mom of three children ages 2,5,7. I lost my husband almost 1 year ago to a car accident. I am looking for a friend that may have gone thur this or is going thur this. I am rooted in church and that has helped to pull me thur those rough times. I have many question and am just looking for a network of friends since i am here in VA, lynchburg alone (orignally from NYC). Is there anyone?

LaToya - posted on 01/09/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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LaToya - posted on 01/09/2009

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Quoting Nicola:

hello i am also 25 to but i have 4 children aged 8,5,4,n 2 and i am also just gone 2 months pregnant with my 5th i also lost my partner 4 years ago when i was 21 i had a 6 wk old baby daughter n a 1 year old at the time when when he died it is hard very hard but as times goes by it get easier with family n friends and since then i have meet another partner who helped me loads n helped get through the bad times people will keep telling you it will get easier and u dont believe it but speaking from experience it does and ur husband lives on in your children thinking that helped me loads


Yeah since i am rooted in church it has helped me, i know things will get better in time. I just needed to reach out to other people people that have experined the same and mostly have gone thur what i am. I deal with the questions of where is daddy over and over or i want daddy over and over and it seems as we reach the 1 year anny. the questions have come more and more. I am actually doing well i just worry about the kids

LaToya - posted on 01/09/2009

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Thank you very much, yeah i am trying to find a circle of friends i was kind of a homw body before but trying to branch out

Nicola - posted on 01/09/2009

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hello i am also 25 to but i have 4 children aged 8,5,4,n 2 and i am also just gone 2 months pregnant with my 5th i also lost my partner 4 years ago when i was 21 i had a 6 wk old baby daughter n a 1 year old at the time when when he died it is hard very hard but as times goes by it get easier with family n friends and since then i have meet another partner who helped me loads n helped get through the bad times people will keep telling you it will get easier and u dont believe it but speaking from experience it does and ur husband lives on in your children thinking that helped me loads

Catherine - posted on 01/09/2009

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hi,im so sorry to hear about your,lose,i am lucky enough not to have suffered a terrible loss but my heart is with you i cannot even begin to feel how you must feel.

I am 27 and have a child of my own who is 4 and 3 step children who are 4 5 and 7,us mums need to stick together and help each other through the good and bad times,keep your chin up xx