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HELP!!!! I THINK MY FIANCE IS FLIRTING WITH WOMEN ON THE INTERNET

Tyanna - posted on 08/08/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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So I am engaged to my second child's father and we have been together for almost three years and we are finally about to tie the knot, however we have this issue of him and internet sites. I have this feeling that he is flirting with other women on social networking sites. One time i seen in his phone where he had been on a dating site but he swear he was not. I guess I am just a little nervous about everything. It is getting bad though. I am starting to have anxiety. I need some advice on how I should approach the situation. I just wish he would give up all the social networking sites.

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Melanie - posted on 08/11/2012

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just confront him.. straight up.. tell him you dont like it..

Tell him to delete all the accounts.

My now ex fiance was doing the same thing... though he told me he would delete them.. but he was still using them for a week before we split.. (he had been using MY laptop and not deleting the browsing history...idiot)

We had a huge argument when i saw a convo in his facebook messages with a female friend of his.. describing the things he would like to do to her .. how sex depraved he was (LIES) and that if he had of known she was free the weekend before (when our son and i were not home) he would have had her over in our spa... yeah.. so that was the end of that one..

Confront him.. emotional cheating is the same as physically cheating..

Tyanna - posted on 08/08/2012

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Thanks and I will use your advice!

Christine - posted on 08/08/2012

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I had the same problem with my boyfriend last year, I am approached him about it once when I saw a email from Black People Meet which he said he wasn't on there blah blah blah, I let it go but then couple months later it was Facebook messages and even Craigslist "I started checking his phone" I told him he had to deleted all social networks and give me his password to his phone and emails until I could trust him again so that's where we are now. Maybe you should just talk to him about it and see what he has to say, that's really all you can do. Good Luck !!

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