Jessica - posted on 11/12/2009 ( 9 moms have responded )
when i got pregnant with my youngest child the man that i was with left me and denied having anything to do with the pregnancy or that he was the father to the child. after two years i have gotten married and the man that i married cares for her as if she were his own. the problem is now the man that denied her has come back and wants to do a dna test to see if she is his. the child in question is only two years old and has never know anyone but my husband as her dad. i do not want to do a dna test and prefer for her to know only my husband as her dad. however the man that denied her thinks otherwise and believes that i am in the wrong and one day she will find out. i know that eventually i will tell her that my husband is not her biological father but should i do a dna test or should i leave the decision up to her when she is older? please anyone with advice! i am so torn. i feel like if i do the dna test my husband wil be furious but at the same time i dont want my child to never know who her real father is.