Belky - posted on 01/13/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )
I am married with 3 kids however, my oldest son, whom is 9 years old, isn't from my husband. His biological father hasn't had any contact in about 2 and a half years, no phone calls, no child support, no show. I have searched the internet but the rules on this subject in NYC is very vague and not understandable. I need someone who has been through this to let me knw the rules in NYC because he has caused alot of disappointment and heartache in my son before he disappeared and I don't want him just popping up to cause a rift in my family anymore. In addition, my husband just asked me can he adopt my son about 4 months ago, which is the reason why I started looking for the info.