How do you stay at home moms not go crazy?

Sarah - posted on 04/24/2012

That sounds horrible! We can sometimes be that way here in my household and it drives me nuts too. I cope with it by doing pilates and going for walks, taking the baby swimming. When it comes down to cleaning - Stop looking at it from a who does what for who type thing. Look it cleaning as something you do for yourself, lets face it - nnnoo male is ever gonna have better cleaning standards then a woman, unless he is smart or in the cleaning business. But really its the last thing on their minds.
I've been trying to change my ways and reactions and when I do, those days are somehow a whole lot better and easier. He needs to find a better job though, you don't want to be dealing with unnecessary hardship for your family.
Hang in there. I hope things improve for you!! We're always here to listen to you vent whatever the case may be

Rebekah - posted on 04/24/2012

Go for a walk, meet your neighbors, go to a park, walk around a mall, look into museums and check out their "free" days, etc.



I'd also look into local programs through the schools, we have what is called SKIP, it's for parents with children birth to 5 years old to meet other parents and children. The kids get to play and then they have a circle time with some books, music, dancing, etc.



If you can't find that, then look for a moms group! Get into a church - MOPS is awesome!!!

Alisia - posted on 04/23/2012

I have 2 girls. My oldest will be 4 next month and my baby is 19 months old. As long as weather is good, I take them outside daily. I take them on a walk around the neighborhood, or to the park, or just to run around outside. It helps them get out some energy and helps me to just get some air and get away from the household stuff. We usually stay out for a good few hours and by the time we come back inside I have them do something mellow like a puzzle or coloring book. It's been routine since my first was born but started off just simply walking around pushing her in the stroller. She would usually nap and it just helped me to clear my mind and relax.

Amber - posted on 04/09/2012

I am a mother of 4.. N my oldest will be 9 in June and I have been home since I had her, and it can Defienetly make u a lil stir crazy.. You just really gave to be able to make time for yourself... Even if it's for a short amount of time each day... Just to be able to clear ur head and collect urself... Trust me you have to be able up have ur own time to keep ur sanity!!!! Good. Luck

Emily - posted on 04/05/2012

Thank you guys for commenting. It really means alot. Im just burnt out Im hoping to soon get a weekend for myself. Trying to plan something I miss my old happy self! I dont blame my son at all hes the best thing to ever happen to me. Being a mom is a 24/7 job and its just getting to me is all. Trying to keep my head up! Thanks guys :)

Megan - posted on 04/05/2012

Hi there. Well it sounds like you are super mom to me. I can see why your feeling down but maybe there are some things you can try to lift you spirits. Join a moms group, take a walk, insist that your boyfriend/someone watch your child so you can have time for yourself. If nothing seems to help I would definitely try to talk to someone. Hang in there lady!

September - posted on 04/05/2012

I was home with our son for the first year of his life. I found myself getting very bored from time to time so I would just get out of the house and go for a walk, visit with other friends that were stay at home Moms, go to the library and spend hours reading to our son, that sort of thing. Most importantly I made time for myself. My husband was very supportive of allowing me some time just for me. Whether it was to go get may hair cut, get a manicure and pedicure, hang out with some girl friends or just shut myself in our room to watch some tv or read a book. Your boyfriend really needs to be supportive of you having some "me" time. He also needs to do his share when it comes to taking care of the responsibilities that come along with having a child. You should talk to him about how you're feeling and if he can't respect the way you're feeling then I'm sorry he's got problems! Having support from your partner is very important. Your child is as much his responsibility as yours. Good luck!