How old were you?

Kate - posted on 04/21/2009 ( 322 moms have responded )

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I am just wondering how old you were when you had your first child, also how old you are now and if you have had more children? I had my first when I was 17, am 26 now(27 in August) and have had 5 children all up.(one, a litle boy who was stillborn) Are you happy with the age you were or would you have liked it to be different?

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Samara - posted on 04/25/2009

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I was 19 when I had my son. Turned 20 exactly 3 weeks later. He is 14 months old now, and I love him sooo much! I am 21 and have started university (college) again this year, I love that I got to have the whole first year with him, it was fantastic. I can't wait to graduate so I can have another child, as well as get a job etc.

I love the age I was when I had him and like where we are at. His dad and I have been together for over 5 years, and hopefully will stay together for the rest of our lives. Right now I think I only want one more child, and would have liked to have the opportunity for my children to be closer in age, but want to finish my education first.

Nena - posted on 04/25/2009

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I was 16 when I got prego and 17 when I had my first boy. I had my daughter at 19 and my sond at 21.



To be honest I wish I would have waited till I was older. I feel like I lost my youth. But I wouldn't change anything but my age when I had them.



My kids r my world!!!



I live in Cali. and i'm 27 now. I want 2 more but my husband doesnt...ugh!

Nena - posted on 04/25/2009

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I was 16 when I got prego and had my first sons3 weeks after I turned 17. I had my daughter at 19 and got married at 20 and had my youngest son at 21. YIKES! There all from my husband.



To be honest I wish I would have waited till I was older to have my kids. I wouldn't want anything to change just my age. I know I would have been way more mature and I still could have had my youth.

But there is a reason why I had my babies when I did. Only God knows that. I am so happy with my life, my kids, and my husband. We struggle but at least we have eachother.



I go to school now, part time only, and I have been Blessed to stay home with my kids and not work. But it's getting harder now that they are older. We need more money, lol!



I live in California, and I'm 27. I totally know how it is and I'm here if you ever need to talk.

Molnar-Pinter - posted on 04/25/2009

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... hi ... i was 25 when my baby boy was born ... i'm 26 now (27 in july) ... yes, i'm happy with the age i had Andi ...i think the timing was perfect ... :D ...

Misty - posted on 04/25/2009

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I was 20 when I had my daughter. I was pregnant 4 1/2 months when I got married. I am now 22 and getting a divorce. I will never regret my daughter or her father. I do regret getting married, we had a great relationship, it was fine the way it was. I didn't realize we still had time. We were and still are too young... Long story short.. If I could do it over I would definitely have my baby, but never get married to her father...

Brooke - posted on 04/25/2009

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I was 17 when i had my first and 19 when i had my second, no more then that already had a tubal and quite content with just having two since i have one of each sex. I'm 29 now and sometimes wish i would of waited until i was older to have any children due to the fact of losing my teen years but at the same time i think about the fact of me being somewhat young still when my children are grown.

Rachel - posted on 04/25/2009

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I am 24, and just had my daughter on March 30,2009. This pregnancy not really being planned has completely changed my life, but I couldn't be happier!! If I could change it, i probably would've waited until I got my degree, but motherhood is a blessing!!

Jessica - posted on 04/25/2009

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i was 19 when i had my first daughter. i was 22 when i had my second child. iam 24 and i feel like i stay home all day and nobody to talk too except for an 4 year old and a 2 year old.

Alicia - posted on 04/25/2009

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I had just turned 20 when i had my daughter. I am now 21, but my daughters dad/boyfriend has 2 girls from a previous relationship, so i guess you could say i have 3 now. Now about being happy with my age... umm no not really i wish that i would have gone to college and waited until mid -late 20's. But i would not change any of this for anything, my daughter means more to me than anything in this world!!!!

Elizabeth - posted on 04/25/2009

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I was 24 with the first one 25 with the second one and 28 with the last one

Crystal - posted on 04/25/2009

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I was 16 when I had my first son who is now 17 and I was 21 when I had my second child who is now 13.I am now 33.I wish I had waited a few more years before I had children but I love them and I wouldn't change them for the world.

Morgan - posted on 04/25/2009

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I was 25 when I had my first on Dec 10th 07 and 27 exactly when I had my second I had her on my 27th birthday. My girls are 13 months apart and I wouldn't change anything.

Andrea - posted on 04/25/2009

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i had my son when i was 24 and now im 27. i only have one child but my husband and i are planning to have another baby soon. for me, starting a family at 24 is just appropriate and i wouldn't want it at any other time.

Monicia - posted on 04/25/2009

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I had turned 22 a month before I had my daughter. I was in college away from home so having a baby was the furthest thing from my mind. I would change anything now that she's here. Having her in my 20s makes me feel like I can have alot more fun with her because I'm still young, cool, and hip. When I think about her getting old I want her to say my mom is the coolest.

Veronica - posted on 04/25/2009

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I was 27 with the birth of my daughter, I will be 28 on may 19. I am happy with the age that I had my baby although at times I wish I could have waited another couple yrs.

Maria - posted on 04/25/2009

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i was 24 when i had my daughter Aya and i can tell that her birth was the most amazing thing in my life till now...i think that this age is almost perfect for having a kid but on the other side i will wait a bit longer for the second sweetie....kisses for all moms

Helen - posted on 04/25/2009

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i was 28 and will be 30 this year was glad i waited as we saved and saved before we had kids and i will only be 35 when we have finished paying off our morgage which will make life with our children so much easier. I would not have wanted children early as i loved university and being independent (love having children more) and i would have felt that i had missed out - also didn't meet my husband until i was 25

Amanda - posted on 04/25/2009

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I was 18 when I had a preterm still born daughter. We named her Victoria. At 19 I had my oldest girl, at 22 my middle boy and 24 my youngest girl. I am now 26 turning 27 in July. And I have 3 kids with a wonderful husband.

Lee-Anne - posted on 04/25/2009

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hi i was 17 when i had my first and im 29 now and ive had 6 more beetween now and then,i would not change a thing about my age and how many ive had and i want 5 morei think kids are great

Charlotte Rebecca - posted on 04/25/2009

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i was 19 when my 1st son was born and i was 19 when i had my 2nd as he was 3 weks early then i haa big gap i had my 1st daughter at26 and then i had another daughter at 26 im 29 now and due my 5th child on the 27th may

Tracey - posted on 04/25/2009

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i was 17 when i had my first i am 27 now and have 5 kids, i enjoy everything about it and have no regrets.

Louise - posted on 04/25/2009

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i am 25 now had my frist daught at 19 nearly 20 best thing in my live then 3 years later i went on to have a boy that was great then a year later had a little girl my kids are my world would not change any one of them but would love a little boy

Kim - posted on 04/25/2009

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I turned 24 2 months before I had my son Jacob. I am now 26 and still have just the one. I wouldn't change anything. I was very happy and wanted to have him then.

Lee-Anne - posted on 04/25/2009

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well i was 17 as well but am 28 now with 7 kids and i would not change it for the world there ages are 11-10-5-4-3-2 and 9mths 1 girl and 6 boys and they are the best thing thats ever happend to me

Amy - posted on 04/25/2009

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i had my 1st 1mth b4 i turned 19 and 2nd girl 3mth b4 my 12st and my last girl i had in jan when i was 23 and got married at 24 divorced at 25 i have always had my own house witch i think helps when u r a young mum or u end up with 24hr supervision and addvice from people it would drive me nuts. i would only change 1 thing and that would b giving my middle child to her father to raise and he signed her over to his family after 5mths but i cant think of what i would do with out my girls

Tara - posted on 04/25/2009

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i was 18 when i had my first 19 when i ad my second and 21 when i had my third and i am gald i was young because i am 26 now and i couldnt imagin having babies now my kids are big and i have the engery to do all things they want to do

Tisha - posted on 04/24/2009

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I had just turned 20 a couple weeks before my son Kaleb was born. He's my world. I'm now expecting our second, Ethan. He's due on Kaleb's 2nd birthday so I'll have just turned 22. I'm very happy with how old I was because I wouldn't want to change anything my little guy is my whole world and I love him to death!

Kimberly - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 25 years, 4 months when we had our first child (a boy). I think that it was the perfect time for us because we had completed school (high school and college), partied, and traveled. I think he is going to be the only one because I am not too open to having a child after 30 and that mark is coming up quick! Plus, I am contemplating on going to graduate school. We enjoy having one child. We are not exactly 'preventing' or 'trying' for another. If it happens, it happens.

Melissa - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 16 when I meet my husband we had our son (Lucas) when I was 17. We got married when I was 18 and we had our daughter (Jovi) when I was 19. I'm very happy with the way things turned out and wouldn't change anything. My kids and my husband are my world. Lucas is now 11 (12 in June) and Jovi is 9 ( 10 in Sep.)...

Karina - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 20 when I had my first. Im 25 now I will be 26 in nov. I had my second when I was 23. I wouldnt say I was at an ideal age but I dont regret it. I have my boys and Im happy with my life : )

Stephanie - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 17 when I had my first baby, too. I am 26 now. My husband and I have had 2 more kids. I wouldn't change anything about my firstborn b/c he is awesome but I would change the timing of when I had him.

Kristy-Lynn - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 17 when I had my first and now I am almost 30 and I have four children in total. I would not change it but I do have some guilt because I realize now that I grew up along with my daughter. I have changed so many times between then and now. I felt I was really mature and grown up and ready but I really wasn't. I made alot of mistakes and I think that people are just naturally too selfish at that age because we are in fact still kids. I feel it was unfair to my daughter. But we are doing great now.

Elisha - posted on 04/24/2009

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Hi Kate, I was 27 when i had my little girl 'Jayla' in Jan 08 and was 28 when i had my little boy 'Jett' in Jan 09. Although both were a very big suprise and not planned my husband and i are so very greatful that we have them now. We were planning our wedding when we found out we were expecting our first so we posponed it for the following year, we finally got married in May 08 and a couple of weeks later found out we were expecting once again. We now cant imagine life without them xxoo

Jennifer - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 18 when I got pregnant first year in college, and now I am 20 soon 21. I didnt want to have a kid that soon but now I dont regret it and glad I did because having him changed me as a person and I am very happy. I am still with his dad and hope to be getting married in the next couple years..were engaged but no date but i hope it works out for the best of my son. I want another kid but not right now maybe after i graduate from college and have a better job.

Loo - posted on 04/24/2009

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Hi Kate,

I was 21 when I had my first (Unplanned) child, a girl Chelsea. And 24 when I had my (Planned) son Jaxon. I will be 29 in July and have been with my husband for 12 years. We have been married for 3 years and were blessed that our children could be part of our bridal party. My husband and I are not going to be having anymore children as I choose to have my tubes tied at 25. I wouldn't change anything about the age I had my children and find that when they are grown adults my husband and I will still be young enough to party with them!

Kristy - posted on 04/24/2009

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I had just gone 20 when i fell pregnant... There is no way in this worl i would change it because I wouldnt have my Beautiful Twins... =) Being as young as I am I can enjoy my chirldren more and so can my family..

Megan - posted on 04/24/2009

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I had my first at 23. Now i am going to be 26 (in aug) and I am due to have my second in sept. They will be 24 months apart. I am very happy, my husband is 10 years older than me and he is not happy about how old he is and how old he was when we had our first.

Andraya - posted on 04/24/2009

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i was 1 when i had my first and now i am 23 and have 4 kids, 3 girls and a boy.

Christie - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 19 with my first son, we had to move our wedding up so I wasn't huge in the dress :) and was just about 21 with my second. I would not change a thing. Even though we were both young and just starting our life together, I am happy with how things have turned out and am glad now that I was so young because I will be a young grandma and maybe even a great grandma one day :)

Latisha - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 21 With my first Daughter And 24 With My second Daughter.And Yes I am Happy with the age I had bothof them.When My Husband and I got Married It was Because we were and still are In love With My First child We Got Married while I was Pregnant.Funny Story Now Is We bought A wedding dress Come To a Couple days Untill Our wedding My dress Wouldnt fit(Due to my Stomach).So I had to go wedding dress looking Fast.

Kawahana - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 20 when I had my son Joshua and I am 27 now. I have not had any more kids and I wouldn't change the age I was at all.

Becky - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 20 when I had my daughter Jasmine and I am now 24 be 25 on September 1st

I am not married But have been with and living with Jasmine's Daddy for 4 almost 5 years

we are working on getting married someday and for a while there I was working but now I am just a stay at home mom and my fiance works two jobs so we can get by and I so love him and My daughter very much I would not Change a thing

Becky - posted on 04/24/2009

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I forgot to say that I was just 4 months away from my 21st birthday when she was born

Becky - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 20 when I had my daughter Jasmine and I am now 24 be 25 on September 1st

I am not married But have been with and living with Jasmine's Daddy for 4 almost 5 years

we are working on getting married someday and for a while there I was working but now I am just a stay at home mom and my fiance works two jobs so we can get by and I so love him and My daughter very much I would not Change a thing

Mandy - posted on 04/24/2009

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I had my first son ON my 16th birthday! And my second when I was 21, they are now 6 years and 7 months

Kelly - posted on 04/24/2009

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I was 27 when my son was born and will soon be 29. I was happy with this age, and hope to have at least a couple more kids someday.

Nicole - posted on 04/24/2009

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i was 21 when i had my first daughter adrian and am now 26 with four girls i would not change anything...Adrian changed my life for the better and so did my other child when they came into my life..

Sarahjane - posted on 04/24/2009

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i just turned sixteen when i had my first child,i was sixteen when i had my second,i was 18 when i had my baby stuck in my tube i was 20 when i had my third and im gonna be 21 when i had my 4th

Katrina - posted on 04/24/2009

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I had my first and only child (so far) when I was 23. Wyatt is now 11 months old. He was a surprise pill baby, but the best thing that has ever happened to me! I love him more than I can say and still cannot believe that I am "mama" to this amazing little man!!! My husband and I are planning to wait until he is about 3 years old before we think about trying for a second. We would like to have 3 kids in total when all is said and done.

Pamela - posted on 04/24/2009

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I just turn 22 the day before I had my daughter. Now I'm 23 and I would love to have another one when she's around 3.

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