Danielle - posted on 06/23/2012 ( 23 moms have responded )
Help!!!! My hubby tells me that I am not the woman he married. I am always in moomy mode and dont know how to get out of it. I am a stay at home mom and just moved to another town and know practically no one. He tells me that if I want to go out he will watch kids but I feel like they need me and dont want to go out. I love my hubby with all my heart and want to make him happy but I just dont know what to do. It was a lot easier to go out and have fun before kids but now thats all I think about, what the kids need and what has to be done around the house. And if on the rare occassion I do go out I feel guilty because Im not home taking care of my family like a mom and wife should be. My hubby loves to hang out with his friends and we tend to argue about it alot because he needs time away from us but all I want to do is spend my time with them. He is my best friend and so to go hang out with someone else is hard because all I want to do is hang out with him. Please help with any advice, I feel my marriage is in trouble and want to try and save it.