Crystal - posted on 02/18/2009 ( 18 moms have responded )
Just wanting to have some advice not counceling type though. . . . My partner of the past 3 years left the kids and I on Valentines Day to go and sleep with his cousin. I am haveing a hard time dealing myself because I never thought he would ever cheat on me let alone with his own cousin. The kids are heartbroken and I haven't exactly been able to comfort them as much as I would like to. Their daddy really messed up and I cannont forgive him for it . .. we are through!!!
The worst part is in two weeks there was to be a ruleing in the courts that my stepdaughters (ages 11 & 13 years old) were to come live with their dad and I. The girls are so let down and depressed . . how do I deal with my kids feelings and my own?
I haven't eaten in 4 days and hardly gotten any sleep along with I started chain smoking out of the blue. I also have gone through 3 gallons of wine in this time frame. I know this is wrong but it is helping numb my own feelings and helping me at least get a little bit of sleep!!