Dee - posted on 12/18/2009 ( 15 moms have responded )
i am a 24 year old mother and really loving motherhood, there are times i get stressed and need time to myself. i try to go out or do something for a few hours and usually when i come back, bella hasnt drunk her bottle or has been crying, and i think she is having seperation anxiety.
How do you cope with people mucking up your schedule or not doing what you want them to do when they look after your child. For example i cant let her cry for too long and i know people have done it when they are alone with her, because they dont see it as a bad thing. i dont know, i am a little mixed up with what i should be doing and what i shouldnt.
i feel guilty when she cries for me when she is on other people, and i try to get her used to people,, but i look after her so much with not alot of help from family. So how can bella understand to be around other people when there arent that many people around most of the time?? does this make sense.