Shannon - posted on 11/06/2009 ( 108 moms have responded )
I dont know if we are even allowed to talk about this on here, but its about sex. I have never really had a sex drive. I pretty much feel like sex is just for reproduction and that alone. It may be because in the past it hasnt meant anything to the guy i was with. He was a cheater the whole time he could get it from anywhere so i didnt feel like it was anything special. Because of him it made me feel worse about the subject and he was my first and only till i left him. I just feel like its a meaningless act and it has always felt gross to me. I want to get rid of these feelings for my current relationship. I know he is not going to any other women to get just me and I feel bad because i never feel like doing anything,, like i said i am very embarrassed about this but i know its not normal and i want to do something about it for the sake of my relationship. I have thought of therapy but is there anyone with any other ideas? Has anyoneelse ever felt like this?
Just wanted to let you all know i have little updates throughout the comment list, LOOK for my pic in the list and you will find some answers to questions and thank yous to those who have posted. Thanks, and my name is shannon i am 25 and have 2 girls, 18 mo, and 8 years of age, both had the same dad that i was with offf and on for 7 years.