i dont feel pregnant, but i am

Krista - posted on 06/25/2010 ( 86 moms have responded )

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im almost 10 weeks pregnant, but i don't feel pregnant at all. my last pregnancy, i was sick all the time, my boobs hurt rlly bad, my face broke out, and i could tell i was pregnant right away. why don't i now? or maybe i miscarried?

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Kellie - posted on 07/13/2010

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I was the same. Until I felt the baby move inside of me I wouldn't have known. I had no morning sickness, my boobs were just a little tender, i didn't have too many cravings, nothing.. i was like this throughout my pregnancy. I was very fortunate :D As are you

Stephanie - posted on 07/13/2010

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Every pregnancy is different and the second one is usually better than the first if it was rough. Good lick and congrats!

Amy - posted on 06/30/2010

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with my two daughters i was sick the minute i found out with this i feel nothing i understand how it can be worrying but i am trying to take the postive side and think maybe this one is a boy

Monica - posted on 06/25/2010

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u would know if u miscarried. If you are really worried about that, go to the emergency and they will check the heartbeat and all that... But all pregnancies are diff!! My first i was sick the whole time, my second i wasn't at all!! When you have ur second, u'll see why pregnancies are so diff... the kids are even more different from each other!!

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Holly - posted on 04/10/2012

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I feel sick all the time and Im not sick! What sex did u have for your second? My first was a boy and i was fine didn't really know i was pregnant.

Janee - posted on 07/13/2010

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Every pregnancy is different. With my daughter I instinctively knew and felt pregnant before I was 3 or 4 weeks. With my second I didnt feel any different until I was almost 20 weeks. My third I didn't really feel any different the whole pregnancy aside from being a bit tired or puffy. My current pregnancy I think I knew the moment I conceived and have felt all of the emotions and hormones very distinctly... Sometimes we get that "feeling" and sometimes we don't. Just like sometimes we get morning sickness, mood swings, sore breasts, or any number of other "symptoms" ... and sometimes we don't get any! If you are worried absolutely see your doctor or go to an ER. But if not, just try and relax and enjoy being pregnant without all the icky stuff!

Not sure if it makes any difference medically but when I've "felt pregnant" they have been girls, and when things have been very slow or mellow I have had boys

Jeramie - posted on 07/13/2010

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Count your blessings that you don't have to get sick all the time. Don't complain about it, and don't take it for granted. Each pregnancy is different, and you got lucky this time.

Keara - posted on 07/13/2010

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for the first part of my pregnancy, i knew right away but i didn't FEEL pregnant... i felt like i had the flu for 3 straight months... and even after i started to get a belly i still didn`t feel pregnant, i could even feel the baby move... i didn`t start to feel pregnant until i hit the third trimester and then it was like it all came up on me all at once... like i ran into a brick wall... everyone is different, i wouldn`t worry too much... and trust me, if you had a miscarriage you would know since u are 10 weeks... maybe this baby will be the opposite sex of the first one so your hormones aren`t the same... just a thought, don`t know if theres anything medical to back that up...

Breion - posted on 07/02/2010

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Well, I'm 6 months pregnant now, and this is my third time around. I just found out that I was pregnant a month ago. Like they say all pregnancies are different. When I was pregnant with my daughter ( my 1st time) I was sick up until the middle of my 2nd trimester, and When I was pregnant with my twins ( my 2nd time) I was only sick according to what I ate. Now with this on (my 3rd time) I got sick months ago but it was ruled as a stomach virus because I was on birth contorl and had the doctor to give me a pregnancy test and the test was negative. so he changed my birth control and when I went for my usual check up that's when I found out. So just cuz you dont feel like your pregnant that doesnt mean your not but if your still worried go see your doctor.

Lee Ann - posted on 07/01/2010

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the say every pregnancy is different.....i was the same way with my 1st child, i broke out really bad, i was sick 24-7, my hair fell out ect. it was bad & im now 12 weeks along with my 2nd and i have nothing going on but heart burn lol

Mary - posted on 07/01/2010

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Be counting your blessings that your not "feeling" pregnant. I didn't feel pregnant till my son started kicking! I pretty much had no symptoms. Remember every pregnancy is different!

AnnMarie - posted on 07/01/2010

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I have 2 one boy and one girl and a boy on the way I'm 20 weeks right now and I have never been sick with any of them :)~. Just try not to worry and in joy your pregnancy !!

Katherine - posted on 07/01/2010

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every preg. is different i didn't look preg till i was 7 / 7and 1/2 months but i could feel the baby and actually feel preg when i was like 4 months. give it time ur still in ur 1st tri. once u get into ur 2nd and 3rd tri. i bet u won't feel the same as u do now.

Lauren - posted on 07/01/2010

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I never felt pregnant until my baby started to kick! I was just as paranoid all the time! It was super stressful because I also had first trimester bleeding! Don't worry too much about it, all pregnancies are different and as long as you get a hb the baby should be fine!!

Melissa - posted on 06/30/2010

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Easy! This one is going to be a boy. Girls make you look and feel like crap I have found.

Michelle - posted on 06/30/2010

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All pregnancies are different and they can make you feel extremely diff. Take it as a blessing that you are feeling so great maybe you will have a very easy pregnancy. If you are really worried call your OB and see what he/she says. Good luck.

Leah - posted on 06/30/2010

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I'm pregnant with my second and I don't feel it at all. Not physically or emotionally. It's more of a mental awareness. I'm almost 9 weeks.

Candace - posted on 06/30/2010

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EVERY PREGNANCY IS DIFFERENT! With my first I was on top of the world... no nausea, my boobs didn't hurt, I had perfectly clear skin... but now that i'm 8 weeks pregnant again, it's completely opposite! If you're really worried talk to you doctor, but keep in mind that no two pregnancies are going to be the same!

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I had no pregnancy symptoms with my son until i was 3 months and even then i never had morning sickness . what u need to remember is that every pregnancy is different and not each time are you going to have the same effects . plus , old wives tale when u have no or little symptoms it means its a boy.

Brianna - posted on 06/30/2010

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every pregnancy is different. maybe its a sign that your having a baby for a different sex then your last one?

Carla - posted on 06/30/2010

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I had that honey i didn't feel pregnant till i felt my son kick at 5months! I knew i was pregnant because i hadn't bled or anything, wait for your scan in a couple of weeks and I'm sure like myself you will see your beautiful baby kicking around in there,just put it down to having a nice easy pregnancy! Good luck and congrats xx

Sara - posted on 06/30/2010

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I didn't feel pregnant until I was 16 weeks - when the baby started kicking! Every pregnancy is different. I had no symptoms other than a missed period. My best friends & I were pregnant at the same time (no, we didn't plan it), and with one pregnancy, she was sick all the time, with the other she didn't start getting sick until way after you're supposed to be done with morning sickness, and I didn't have morning sickness at all! Everything is fine :)

Claire - posted on 06/30/2010

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I am 10 weeks pregnant also and i am worse this time than with my first although some things i felt last time i dont feel this time and my face is all broke out also.. im sure everything is fine enjoy feeling fine it may hit u wen u least expect it or not at all if u have any concerns im sure the doctors will do a scan ive had 3 in the past 5 weeks and also have a little bump already my son only 10months so guess my abdo muscles still very relaxed... hope everything goes ok for u xx

Angelina - posted on 06/30/2010

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you could be having the opposite sex of what you had before. i know it sounds silly but a friend of mine had her girl first and had a really breezy pregnancy but now that she prego with her boy she having morning sickness and heartburn and all those fun prego nasties.

Casey - posted on 06/30/2010

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The only way I found out I was pregnant with my little one was that my coffee started tasting really funny. Turns out I was almost 12 weeks along by then. I never got sick and I worked 8-10 hour days till the day before I was induced.

Christy - posted on 06/30/2010

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I'm assuming every pregnancy is different. So if your pregnant and have no side effects...be thankful and enjoy it while it lasts!!!!

Sarah - posted on 06/30/2010

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Both my pregnancys where diffrent and inbetween the two I actually misscarried so belive me you'd know if thats what had happend. Don't get so worried, but if you can't settle your mind I would go and check at my doctors. Calms the mind! Good luck with your pregnancy.x

Stacey - posted on 06/30/2010

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hi i am 11 weeks pregnant and i dnt feel pregnant either but i had it check out and everything fine dnt be worried love just get it check out if ur worried

Charlena - posted on 06/29/2010

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every pregnancy is sooo different , with my daughter i was sooooo sick throwing up , boobs hurting , etc lol but now pregnant with my son i havent been sick at all , morning sickness every now and then but can be controlled if i dnt drink liquids with my meal . and im now 32 weeks and still feeling great ! dnt worry just enjoy being sick free !! good luck ♥

Emily - posted on 06/29/2010

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im almost 8 weeks pregnant and although ive have a little morning sickness going on (or pregnant sickness aka pregness as my brother says "because you arent just sick in the morning"! lol) and my breasts are a little sore (but just a little) i dont feel like im pregnant either! the whole thing is so surreal to me at times i wonder if i really am pregnant, but its hard to argue with the doc on that one!! so i think im trying to say that it could just be normal for you with this child to feel this way!

Rebecca - posted on 06/29/2010

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I'm over 13 weeks pregnant now with my second pregnancy & the first 7 weeks my boobs hurt so bad & I felt a little sick. Since then, I haven't had really any symptoms of pregnancy at all, which scared me some. Then I went to the doctor & they did my first ultrasound at 11 weeks & got to see the heart beat & the baby.....so awesome! That will put your mind at ease whe you see and hear that!

Jessica - posted on 06/29/2010

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i didnt fell pregnant till i was 20 weeks, you couldnt even tell iwas pregant until 6 months

Carina - posted on 06/29/2010

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listen to everyone i am on my third pregnancy and none of them were alike. my first i was sick every night at 9 pm i knew when i was going to feel sick, my second the sickness came on when ever it wanted to and with this one for the first 3 months i was nauseated from the moment i woke up to the moment i fell asleep.

Emily - posted on 06/29/2010

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i'm in the same boat at you. i only get lightly nauseous feeling when i go too long without eating..like 4 or 5 hours lol

Morgan - posted on 06/29/2010

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every pregnancy is different! remember that! im sure your baby is doing just fine and im sure you will have a great pregnancy and have a healthy baby :)

Cassandra - posted on 06/29/2010

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Every pregnancy is different. My last one was a God send. I didn't get sick, I actually lost weight, and could eat what ever I wanted. He also kept all his limbs inside the wound!!!! So just take each day in stride and don't stress so much over small things. Be thankful that you are getting the morning sickness. Cause you never know when it might sneak up on you.

Crystal - posted on 06/29/2010

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awh honey! I didn't feel pregnant until I could feel my daughter move inside me/and started showing. I had no morning sickness and a very easy pregnancy. Just feel lucky to be in the same boat, trust us, you would know if you miscarried! You are pregnant ♥

Katrina - posted on 06/29/2010

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Unfortunately if you dont have symptoms you wont feel pregnant until later! I didnt feel pregnant until I felt my baby move.

Laura - posted on 06/29/2010

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i was totally like that with my 2nd baby
no sickness no boobie pains no spots
its all to do with different hormones i was told by my doctor at the time

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I agree every pregnancy is different when i was pregnant with my daughter i had no morning sickness,my boobs didn't hurt,my feet didn't swell pretty much all and all it was a great pregnancy i think the only thing i did was cry alot and at 7mnts i was bleeding and had to go to the hospital i started having contractions to but the doctors stopped it and i was fine for the last 2 mnts...I did have a c-section because she was breached and i didn't know it but that's it...

Elysia - posted on 06/28/2010

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each pregnancy is different. i was sick for the minute i conceived my son to the time i gave birth. This time around its been a rather pleasant ride with only a touch of something here and there. I am having a girl this time so i dont know if thats making a difference. If you are really concerned book an appointment with your doctor and see if the doppler will detect the heart beat or ask for an ultra sound to put your mind at ease. You dont want to stress that precious little bundle.

Crystal - posted on 06/28/2010

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Consider yourself blessed! I am completing my 3rd pregnancy, and never had morning sickness, or sore boobs, or acne! Enjoy your easy pregnancy! You can go to your OB if your are really worried about it. That would set your mind at ease, but they probably won't be able to find a heartbeat with the belly monitor until at least 12 weeks. They would have to do an ultrasound to find that. The dr should be able to feel around and tell you if everything felt ok.

Amy - posted on 06/28/2010

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Consider yourself lucky to feel normal!! If you miscarried you'd know. If you are feeling unsure go to emerge. you know your body better than anyone, if it doesnt feel right go make sure :)

Melody - posted on 06/28/2010

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I was the exact opposite. Had everything really easy with the first one, barely sick at all and no issues til much later and really enjoyed being pregnant, but with this pregnancy I was sick all the time in the first trimester and my face still breaks out and I'm in almost constant pain in my hips and leg joints, and just can't wait for it to be over! Enjoy the easy stages while they last! Like so many of the other moms have said, every pregnancy is different for every woman, and probably everything is fine, but if you're really concerned you could ask your caregiver to send you for an ultrasound to ease your concern, cuz stress and worry is not good for you, or either of your little ones.

Ashley - posted on 06/28/2010

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I think u would no if u miscarried maybe your just having a great pregnancy.

Brittany - posted on 06/28/2010

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I'm pregnant right now too. They claim about 14 weeks now. I didn't really feel like I was either until about 2 weeks ago. My last pregnancy i felt it right away. I just knew that I was. This time EVERYTHING is different. You would definitely know if you had a miscarriage.

Katie - posted on 06/28/2010

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I was pregnant before I had my daughter and that resulted in a still birth but I know I was sick the entire time and my boobs hurt all the time. When I got pregnant with my daughter I didnt feel pregnant like you do because my body had been through it the first time so it was prepared. If you feel concerned about it then call your doctor and they can check you out.

Annika - posted on 06/28/2010

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My first was EASY and my second was the one i was sick ALL THE TIME its never the same thing twice. Congrats

Lexi - posted on 06/28/2010

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I would just consider yourself lucky!! Each pregnancy is different. Have you been in to the doctor yet to confirm your at home test or have your first check up and hear the heartbeat? They will be able to reassure you that everything is ok. I know every time I went in and heard that little thump thump all my worries eased up a bit.

Jessie - posted on 06/28/2010

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I didn't have many 'typical' pregnancy signs either but I somehow knew I was before my period was due. I was tired but that was normal working 2 jobs and going to college. I waited a week and half after missing my period to take a test though because I had been feeling bloaty and crampy and it just seemed like any other time before my period started. I was just in denial about it I think, lol. Normally anytime I had been 2 days late even I would freak out and tell my boyfriend I was never having sex with him agian,lol. but I didnt say anything to anyone until after I took the test and it was positive. Our baby will be 1 in two weeks and I went the whole preg without being sick once or having an out there cravings. I gained 25 lbs, no stretch marks or anything. He did start kicking the crap out of me around 17 weeks so that was hard to miss haha! best of luck girl!

Becky - posted on 06/28/2010

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i dont think you miscarried. i was like that this time with my son i didnt start "feelin" prego til i was pas 20 weeks. i was never sick had ache but it was normal for me. i could eat anythin i wanted no pain peed like normal and all . so just wait they always say every pregnancy is dif
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Lyndsey - posted on 06/28/2010

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Every pregnancy is different and you might not really feel pregnant until you have a big belly this time. If the dr. doesn't see anything wrong I wouldn't worry about it to much, just be thankful you're having an easier time :)

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