Miriam - posted on 07/22/2009 ( 51 moms have responded )
I love my husband so much, and my kids. But we've been having problems in the past year as my man is always wanting us to have sex, but I can never get into it and it always feels more like a chore to me so I always put it off. I find it hard to get into the right frame of mind for it. And I have no idea what to do, how to get myself into the right frame of mind so that it's not like a chore to me as I feel like if this keeps on going it could break our relationship and our marriage apart.
Please help me and give me some advice.
On top of that there is the fact that I never seem to do things quite right, or I put something in the wrong place, or when he gets home from work instead of doing something that he is quite capeable of doing himself he expects me to do it all the time so I really get no time to rest or time to myself anymore.
I feel like I'm slowly going to go crazy and more and more often I want to break down into tears.