I hate when women start "man hating" I LOVE MY MAN ♥

Holly - posted on 04/12/2010

I was married to a wonderful man and we had a great family, but he he died early in life. He was a great husband and the best father and a good friend. He is gone almost 6 years now and I have moved on well without him with our farm, livestock, work, and finances, but the only problem area was with meeting other men. I try not to compare others to him, but some are just awful, cheap, condescending, and just plain irratating. I do have to say though after meeting someone three years ago, he has hung in there and been patient and I am happy to say he is a wonderful person and makes me happy. He likes my girls and they like him. He works hard at whatever job he does and has no qualms whether it is to mop up a mess or work with livestock. He cooks suppper for us and tells me about his day. He listens to what we say and remembers what we say and then genuinely asks how it turns out. There are good men out there and I have been lucky to know two.

Tara - posted on 04/11/2010

Im so glad to see that there are some great wonderful man out there in the world. I am for sure not one of the girls that hate all man I just HATE MY SOON TO BE EX HUSBAND, lol' I for sure do know what you mean thou, because I was talking to a girl that i met online and we was talking about are life's and are children, and I was telling her my story and my ex cheated on me 3 times before i left him, hit me all the time, when i was preg with are son he always hit me in my stomack and said he wasnt going to stop hitting me til i had a miscarrage and he would say things like he knew it wasnt his kid, but then yet just to throw in I wasnt even aloud to hang out with my mother, my sister, grandmother NO ONE so how the heck was I going to have sex with anyone besides him, All i was aloud to do was go to work every single day, and oh yeah he had to drop me off at work and pick me back up with MY CAR that i got before i even knew him, but i wasnt going to fight with him because i hate to fight and i hate drama, so well i was at work maken money was i was preg he was at home doing nothing but sitting on his ass doing drugs, oh boy when i found that out i was so pissed. But anyways yes there are good man out there, and I just can not wait til I met one, I have been single for about 5 years i have saw one guy sents my son's father and i split up 5 years ago, so yah i just cant wait to have the right man come into my life, i have been throw alot so it does take me a lil while to open up but i do know that not all man are like that. because before i met my son's father I was with 2 other guys well not at the same time lol but they was great man just got one bad fish ouot of 3 and i am sure everyone gets a bad man once in awhile just like man get bad women sometimes, it works both ways and i can not stand when PEOPLE being man or women walk around talking shit about the other sex it is not right. Thanks Stevie for posting this.

Lainie - posted on 04/11/2010

This is an awesome post!
We have been together since i was 16, almost 11 years and we have been married for 2 and had our first baby in December. My husband might not be perfect but he is perfect for me ♥ He doesnt cook and rarely cleans and i never get flowers but i dont care about any of those things. There are so many reasons why i do love my husband but the most important is that he is my best friend, he understands me better than anyone and can always make me smile.

Kimberly - posted on 04/11/2010

I'd say as far as your coworkers go--let them manhate--they are just venting to eachother. That's what our fellow female coworkers are for. If it bothers you, leave the room. As for them telling you that your partner will leave you, b/c they're all like that--that's obviously not true nor right of them to say. However I wouldn't let it upset you so much--all you can do is prove them wrong-and I'm sure you will, and laugh it off. My husband is awesome--but do I manhate sometimes?! YES! B/c he has his moments...and it's fun to talk about at work with the other girls :)

Mandi - posted on 04/10/2010

That was really great to hear your story! My husband is like that as well and I hate to hear women talk bad about their husbands and boyfriends. That's how affairs start-they fill their minds with negativity about the person they say they love. It's nice to hear someone else think that man-hating is a waste of time and totally degrading. Plus, it makes other women go down that same destructive path. I appreciate your willingness to tell women to knock that garbage off!

Megan - posted on 04/09/2010

I love this girls!!! Now I just ask one thing...the next time your man pisses you off to the point of 'no return' (you know what that is) remember all these things you said!!! It helps to cool you off. My man is amazing and brings out the best (and worst) in me but the one you truley love encourages you to explore all your emotions...I couldn't live with out him.

Amanda - posted on 04/09/2010

Im not a man hating b**ch or anything but sometimes we just get a shitty man...Now dont get me wrong my husband can be awsome at times but then he can turn it all around on me and make it all my fault. Mind you i cook i clean i do his and everyone elses laundry, i even take complete care of OUR kids: i bathe them i feed them i dress them i take them to the park i do all of that while he sits at home and plays his game, so forgive me if not every woman on this planet has that PERFECT man! We are both in school so neither one of us are working so everything should be shared but its all on me i even pay the bills when they come due so love your perfect man. im not saying there are no good men out there but sometimes people need a B**ch secion at times and dont know how to do it other than make you feel like your mans going to be bad too.

Jennifer - posted on 04/09/2010

I love my husband.
We have been married for 5 years and have 3 kids. He still tells me I'm beautiful, helps clean and cook. He is an amazing dad and makes sure the kids respect me too. I love him sso much and am happy someone gave me a chance to say so.

Dawn - posted on 04/09/2010

I was going to comment but Amy Kaehne said it best I think, I also wanted to say I am Happy for those that found. You are mad at them for bashing men, but you turn around and bash those women? that doesn't seem fair. But Good Luck to you all in your relationships and take care. I am truly happy for everyone that has found someone wonderful.

Sereena - posted on 04/09/2010

I have a great man too he has 10 children and each one was raised by him and he was a single father for 4 years when his youngest was born the mother drugged up and felt like she didnt want kids anymore and left. there goes to show its not only men...hes a great man and a great father his kids respect him and anyone else that comes around and are well mannered...he could have taken the easy way and gave them up for adoption but he didnt he dealt with his responsiblilties and did his best to give them the best thats a great man. they do exist and i think if girls are man hating they really need to stop dating

Rita - posted on 04/09/2010

My husband was been very supportive through everything, We have been together since I was 13 and he was 18. We got married year before last after being together for 7 years. We had a baby in last Oct. and while I was pregnant he would help me clean the house then he would go to work 2-10pm and then come home and help me finsih supper. And now since the baby is here he helps me with her while I clean the house and he will give me a break on the weekends to go do what ever I want to do. So the way I see it is he helps me.. You just have to find the right man for you...... But dont have on all of them just becasue one done u wrong.

Linnea - posted on 04/09/2010

Well its hard I guess when all they have known is terrible men. When they are hurt and wounded by the men in their lives, they often end up looking for or finding the wrong kind of man who will only make things worse for them. I used to feel like this after being hurt by man men, not realizing I just hung with the wrong crowd and looked for guys in the wrong places, where inevitably I would find the cheaters, the haters, the bloodsuckers who just want sex. Then I went to a Bible study at a coffee shop and there found a wonderful man whom I am now married to, with 2 boys. Just gotta look for the right kinda guy, and look in the right places!

Tara - posted on 04/09/2010

Most man haters have had their heart broken one too many times but still need to stop not all men are the same AND i cant belive someone told you that about your man i would of been p/o'd! Ladies when you meet a woman with a great man your supposed to say "you're soooo lucky! Does he have a brothe? lol

Jamie - posted on 04/09/2010

I, too, have an awesome hubby. He's my best friend and support system. I have hope that every women can meet the perfect man for her. It helps if you give them a chance. ;) I had to go through the bad ones to find the right one. And guess what? Most of those bad ones now have women in their lives that they treat like queens. I just wasn't the right one for them and they weren't right for me. When you find the perfect mate, you'll know. And, you'll let go of that resentment towards the male gender lol

Melissa - posted on 04/09/2010

I have a wonderful husband!! We've been married for 2 years and been together for 5. Our daughter is almost 3 and he is soo wonderful with her. We work different schedules and he takes care of her while i'm at work and vice versa. He wants to be involved in everything. He is planning her birthday party this year and is so excited. Our daughter just adores him and they just play and play. I couldn't have asked for a better man, husband and father!

Danielle - posted on 04/09/2010

I have a great man in my life...I also have gained weight and "6 thousand stretch marks" (I laughed for real when I read this) and even on the days where he walks in the door at 5pm and sees me in my pajamas he still calls me sexy. I also completely trust him and I have no fear of him leaving me. He doesn't really help me clean other than doing the dishes occasionally but if I want to clean he keeps the baby entertained so I can at least do it in peace. He works full time so I can be at home with our 11 month old son and relax during my second pregnancy (I'm 4 months along). I've had bad experiences with other men...before my fiance and I got together I mean and I was pretty bitter back then but my fiance has definitely shown me there are wonderful men out there. Maybe there are more jerks than good ones but they do exist and I've been lucky enough to find one who loves me just as much as I love him!

Jesika - posted on 04/09/2010

My bf did leave me. But, god know I love him dearly. He's currently in Afghan right now. There is nothing that I wouldn't do for him and I know that when he comes home things will get better. I have 6 months to go. I love him and miss him more than anything right now.

Ashelly - posted on 04/09/2010

I echo that statement wholeheartedly!! my hubby is also perfect... FOR ME! woooooo!! lol I tell him so often ♥

Kathy - posted on 04/09/2010

Yay! like so many others that have already said it, I'm so glad you started this! I get so sick of women that always find the worst in men. Whether they are their co-workers, 'friends' , husbands etc.. everyone has faults, some people are worse than others, but if men talked about women the way women talk about men in the workplace they'd get sued! Also, a lot is your perspective on things. I've been married for 9 years (next month) and have 3 children. My husband is from Italy and we have had to overcome A LOT of culture differences! I was talking with a friend recently and she was saying how sometimes she gets so upset with her husband and wishes they were happier like us. when her hubby comes home from work looking for dinner or 'expects' that he'll have clean laundry it sets her off. I told her that my hubby is the same way, but I choose to look at like this...if my husband forgets to rotate the tires and we have a blow out he'll be upset at himself not at me b/c that's something he is responsible for. Likewise at this point in our lives I'm responsible for food and laundry ( I have chosen, was not forced into, being a stay home mom) so if it's not done he has a right to comment that he's hungry! It's not right to say x,y, z are HIS jobs and a,b, c are OUR jobs but nothing is just up to me. That is what I see so many women doing even beyond household stuff. It's ok for 'man haters' to lust after other men on t.v. or on the street but if their boyfriend or husband says a woman is pretty they are furious! what?? Try to be the type of person you'd like to be with. If I were a man I'd probably cheat on a woman that blamed me for cheating even if I hadnt :(
PS. and I think that ladies talking to each other as friends about their personal problems is different than 'man haters' like the initial poster was talking about. I think one needs help and encouragement and the other is a mindset that even when they find mr. perfect they'll still hate him b/c they are jealous they cant be as good as him.

Amy - posted on 04/09/2010

Hey, I truly mean it when I say I am happy for all of you who have a wonderful man out there. But truth be told, sometimes you just need an outlet. If you are not lucky enough to have someone that is a good husband/boyfriend/father, its nice to be able to have someone to talk to who might actually be going through the same thing. We all go through phases in our lives, and can use people to help us get through the tough ones. Be proud of your man if he is a great one, but no need to put the women down who happen to be going through something with theirs right now. Were supposed to be there for eachother, not kick eachother when were down.

Laura - posted on 04/09/2010

My husband is wonderful. He gets up at 5.00am most days for work, then he gets in about 3pm and sits down and spends some time chatting to our 4 month old daughter and giving her cuddle, she definately knows who her daddy is. I try to do litle thingsto show our appreciation like make his lunch for the next day (even tho i'm not really that type of wife). I'm breastfeeding so he can't feed her, but he gives her a bath every night even though he's tired, then they will go to bed at the same time around 8.30 lol. He never complains if her crying wakes him up in the night and he has work the next day. He always greets me with a smile and a kiss and always tells me he loves me, and i can see it in his eyes the way he looks at us both. i'm the hot head and he's the calm one, when i'm having an irrational stress he never reciprocates, never raises his voice, he's gentle and kind.

We have a fantastic relationship, and sure we have the odd tiff over nothing because no one is perfect but i love him so much, and i feel so lucky that i married him. :)

Tianè - posted on 04/09/2010

I wish there was more woman than just the few of us that thinks our husbands are awesome and love them so much....Needless to say i think all the man haters's lifes will be so much better if they just start trying to except that bad things happen in life and that men are not always the one's to blame.Ive been through a horrible relationship and my husband is the best ever...i think its amazing to be pregnant, gain all the weight you can collect every stretchmark you can and they'll still tell you how beautiful you are.You cant blame every man for one that did something wrong you'll never be happy in your life.Thanks to those precious husbands and enormously special dads and everything they do for their families.Lets hope those man haters catch a wake up soon.

Vicky Jean - posted on 04/09/2010

This post took my eye straight away, and thank you so much for starting it. My husband and I have been together for 9 years this Sep and have been married for nearly 2. We have five children together, and he has been with me through it all - pregancy, labour, emotional roller coaster moments, kids crying, teething...everything and worked full time too!!! I love him heaps. Men are awesome when you are both honest, truthful and respectful!! Love ya babe!!

Jennifer - posted on 04/09/2010

Ugh, I hate man-haters, they are terribly scorned women. My man is the best, we have been together three and a half years,and have a 6 and half month old baby boy :) He works extra hard at work, and does extra hours, so we have more money and so that I cna stay at home full time. He never complains if I haven't got his dinner ready as soon as he walks through the door, he never moans when I ask him to help out with the washing up/ hanging washing out/taking bins out/ changing babies nappy/ vacuumin etc

He is a loyal and decent man, who would do everything in his power to make sure we have the best life and I love him LOADS AND LOADS!!!!!!!!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

Carmella - posted on 04/08/2010

AND also, he has helped alot with my self esteem issues, he makes me feel so special and sexy, that i don't remember all those things i dread looking in the mirror about, he loves me for exactly who i am, unconditional and that means so much to me!

Carmella - posted on 04/08/2010

I know exactly what you mean!! of course my husband isn't perfect, but neither am I, and we both do things that drive each other nuts, but in the long run we love each other dearly, and we have made the commitment to be married and have a family!! I know someone who assumes her bad and ended marriage is a template to all relationships and marriages, and is like, oh you have sex now, but wait... or it's all lovey dovey now... how about we love each other and we are very affectionate and hold hands walking around in public or in the car at stop lights, and my daughter and son to be born son will see, our healthy affecton to each other, and yes, our disagreements, but as long as we keep that civil that is healthy for them to see too, because they will learn how to communicate effectively, even if disagreeing :) and actually we did have problems when my daughter was first born, and before, but that was from me listening to everyone else's 2 cents! when i went back to school after my daughter was born, t was my instructor that strait up asked me one day... "has he ever hit you?" "no" "has he ever cheated on you?" "no" " well, then anything else you can work out" and that really struck me and stuck with me, that even tho i get frustrated sometmes, that there are alot worse out htere, and in the end, he respects and loves me, and anything else can be discussed, and compromised :) and I couldn't magne being with anyone else ever!

Rebecca - posted on 04/08/2010

Love my baby yup yup I love my man! But sometimes when he doesn't listen I just want to 'HANTAM' him lah I'm 21 and he's 28 and I wish he stops playing with games on his new i phone and spend more time with our daughter!!! But can't think of any other man I'd be with!!!

Carol - posted on 04/08/2010

My husband and I have been together ten years in October and married seven years in September. Of course he has habbits that anoy me and I know I do things to anoy him but we love each other a lot. Friends gave us six months when we met and we have proved all our doubters wrong. I think the type of man you end up meeting depends on how you go about meeting them. I had some really bad boyfriends (including one that when I said no to sleeping with him at 13 years old went and attacked my best friend instead). This did not deteer me from believing that the right person was out there for me somewhere and that I needed to keep looking. To all those ladies that have their lovely partners God Bless you all. and to all the ladies still looking Good Luck and never give up !!!

Catherine - posted on 04/07/2010

I totally agree with you. My boyfriend is amazing. We've been together for three years but we were friends two years before that. We have a beautiful baby girl and he treats us both amazingly. I hate when people say we haven't been together long enough and we'll split eventually, blah , blah, etc. They aren't in our relationship and they don't know us and how we are.

Leslie - posted on 04/07/2010

I have a wonderful man! We have been together for 3.5 years and have a 2 year old boy. He works his butt off so I don't have to work and can go to school full time (I am getting my BSN-RN) as well as spend time caring for our son. If I need something or our son needs something he will find a way to get it. He is always there for me when I need someone to give me mental, emotional, and physical support. When I was 210 pounds (5ft tall) after our son was born he did not make me feel any less loved and he did not act like he was any less attacked to me. In fact I am 76 pounds lighter now and he is not any different with me. He is my rock. I love him more than words can express! ♥

Kaitlin - posted on 04/07/2010

I love my hubby too...he is type of man that is very hard to find. Not many people know this but my hubby is not my daughter's biological father...but he is still her daddy. I was married to a different guy before I met him. So if I ever say I hate a man, it would be my ex...he is a horrible person...he was very controling and abusive and he ditched me while I was 8 month preggo with his daughter for some hott blonde. Anyway, after all that I met my hubby and he helped me take care of my daughter while she was little and after a while we got married and we have been married over a year now. No matter what mood I am in, he can surely make me laugh and he helps me through alot. And he is an awesome dad to my little girl. I could not ask for anyone better. I know there is no such thing as a perfect relationsip, but that is because there is no such thing as a perfect person. But he is still the perfect man for me. I love him dearly. And I thank God for him everyday. If a woman "man hates" on your man it is only because they are just jealous that you have a awesome man that they don't have and want. :)

Ashley - posted on 04/07/2010

ya i must say my partner is good to us. He took paternity leave with our youngest so i could go back to school. We struggled these past few months but i'm done on friday. We often bickered back and forth because of money issues but we made it through. He has helped me so much during school that i really dont think i could have done it without him. He'll tell my friends to take me out and have a good time while he stays with the kids. He really is great and i guess sometimes i take it for granted. If we have extra money he'll tell me to go out and by myself something. I have no complaints on this end...:)....

Amanda - posted on 04/07/2010

awww im soo happy theres this many people that are happy! it seems like its so rare, half the people i know are single, with a jerk and miserable, or going thru a divorce... and there are plenty of women who say "it just hasn't ended YET... he'll cheat or something soon enough" u know what, it's just as easy for me to cheat as it is for him, im not cheating, and as best as i know, he aint either lol
I LOVE MY HUSBAND!!! He's an awesome guy, and isn't perfect, but is definately the perfect guy for me. He puts up with me, and doesn't let me play him for a fool lol.. He takes care of myself and our son, and is as happy as I am that we're expecting baby number 2. We went thru a miscarraige, and he was amazing, I know it scared the shit out of him and he was sad, but he made sure to help out more with our son and let me have some time to myself to deal with it. He can be romantic and sweet when he wants, and has an awesome sense of humor. I also am happy to say he's sexy as all hell, atleast to me lol... We've been married for almost 4 years, and got married after only 5 months of knowing each other, so we heard it all in the first year or two. Even half my family told me I was being stupid and it wouldn't work/last. We are just as happy, if not better, now than we were when we first got together. We rarely fight, and when we do it's about stupid things, and it's usually over like ten minutes later lol.. He completes me :)

Angela - posted on 04/07/2010

My husband is a good man. I don't hate him all the time, just most of the time. I am resentful towards him b/c of our past. Sometimes I wish I could leave him. I just don't think that he is that bad of a man and I don't want to break up this family. I make an effort everyday to love him. I think some women man hate b/c they are depressed b/c they feel like there is nothing better than what they have and they should hold on to what they have. I wish I loved him more than I do but you can't make things like that happen. We have done counseling and have tried everything i know how to do. All is lost :( But hearing all these AMAZING posts about husbands has given me happiness for all of you!

Lydia - posted on 04/07/2010

LOL - its a bit of a self-fulfilling prophecy when you expect the worst of your man! Im with you - although my man can frustrate the hell outta me at times (although Im sure I return the favour) he is awesome. He wouldnt ever to anything to really hurt me - and he works his butt off to provide us with enough money and opportunities to live a lifestyle we love. Couldnt ask for a better man either :)

Kerri - posted on 04/07/2010

Wow you have a good man there, and feel free to tell those rude people at your work to take their ignorant comments elsewhere. My husband is great too. He has his faults, but he's a great husband and father to our two little boys :)

Christin - posted on 04/06/2010

actually when i got married i had alot of issues and my husband put up with me and he married me not just because he loved me but because he wanted to help me get stuff together and help me thru my problems. thats alot to take on especially when we didnt really know eachother when we got married. we dated for 2 months. we had a rough 1st year but now we have been married 3 years and we like never fight. he will be honest and not tell me things bc its what i want to hear, but even now after i had the baby i was a mess. i have a hormone issue and it causes my anxiety to be bad at times and hes always been there. it does get annoying when girls are always downing guys,if its for cheating well i wonder why? maybe its the way you treat them? if a guy cheats theres usually always a reason. some girls i think just do it bc they think they are perfect and are just well....bitches. my husband and i had our 1st last nov and it took 2 years. yes it was an accident as we were told we'd never have kids and he was at every dr.s appointment with me,every other apt i had pertaining to the pregnancy,he helped me out. i loved to clean as it gave me stuff to do so he let me do it but if i needed help he'd help me. after i had her, i still wanted to do stuff so he let me go and if i needed help he'd step in.

Candace - posted on 04/06/2010

everything between my boyfriend and i wasn't all peaches and cream or a walk on the beach. we had our issues but he lets me know he loves me and i love him too. 4 years together, and we're getting stronger every single day. i can't wait to see how far our love takes us....(well beyond our son)

Amanda - posted on 04/06/2010

Most men are cheaters and other things and I know many women who are right now in bad relationships with guys who do not treat them very nice, but like you said not all men are. me and my husband got married very young but because we wanted to not for any other reason then we were ready. a lot of ppl to this day do not think we are going to stay together but we still are together now for five years and married for almost four with one son and a second child on the way now. He is not perfect and niether am I but still he does do many thing for me like help with our son at night if he is sick or something even though he has to get up early in the morning for work because I am pregnant and has not been feeling very well, he does the dishes for me in the evening because I am on my feet all day with a three year old who is running around playing and trys to do as much as possible for me, which is awesome!!

Melisa - posted on 04/06/2010

I absolutely love my partner. I think he is the most amazing, smart, sweet, sexy man there is! I could go on with compliments, but I am sure you would mostly all get bored. LOL. We had only been together for 8 months when we found out I was pregnant, but it only made him a better man! He has done everything to take care of me and our daughter. Me giving birth to my little girl made me love him all the better. He was the most amazing support and did everything for me he could. He is defanitely not only my soul mate, but my best friend. Bad situations brought us both together which made me appreciate his amazingness all the more. I cannot say enough nor will I ever have the words to say how perfect my partner is -- for me and my daughter.

Brandi - posted on 04/06/2010

I DO TOO, I LOVE MY HUSBAND, HE IS SO GOOD TO ME, HE WORKS SO HARD EVERYDAY SO I CAN STAY HOME WITH OUR BABY GIRL, I COULDNT ASK FOR A BETTER HUSBAND OR FATHER, I WOULD NEVER TRADE HIM FOR ANYTHING.

Anna - posted on 04/06/2010

Agreed! My husband is awesome. He works his ass off so I can stay home with our daughter. I know alot (ALOT) of good for nothing men and I feel so bad for those women married to them. But that doesnt mean that all men are bad. I do hate it when the bitter ones feel they need to drag us down because we have a good one. Im sorry youre unhappy but that doesnt mean my relationship is going to take the same turn yours did. I had a friend who always told me that she wished her hubby was like mine. That cracked me up big time. I dont know why but it was like, she was just as bad as him but blamed all thier problems on him. Women need to take responsibl=ility for thier own actions in a marraige or any relationship. Yes, men do cause us grief sometimes, but its how we respond to it that makes things work or not work. Right?

Amber - posted on 04/06/2010

Thank u!!! me and my husband have been together since i was 17 and he was 16 and i am now 24 and he is 23. When he proposed he was 17...we had to wait till he was 18 to be married. i got preggers with our daughter and he got a second job with benefits and worked his ass off to save money for our lovie. 5 yrs later we still act like newlyweds and have a beautiful 4 yr old daughter and a great 15 month old son. he thinks i am beautiful even with stretch marks, and busts his ass at work to pay bills while i am a stay at home mom. My husband may be completely different from me but he completes me! and i love him :)

LaToya - posted on 04/06/2010

You're just lucky. Not all women can understand your relationship because they've never experienced it themselves. Many women settle and others believe they can't do any better. What have people done all throughout history with things they do not understand? Hate! Because it's easy and it's apart of our nature to be envious. I will say this though, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship! There will be problems because that comes with the territory of being in a relationship. But, you've got yourself a good partner if you talk things out and work things out.

Rosa - posted on 04/06/2010

You know I am glad that so many of you have found wonderful partners, I myself have a pretty good one. Unfortunately no all are so lucky and no one knows someone elses situation until they are in it themselves.....so let them bash worry about yours and let them have their digs in the end I'm the one happy with my man and my son.

Tyeasia - posted on 04/06/2010

I must say this was a good thread to post.. I have an amazing fiance' We have been together for going on three years now(oct) we have a 6 month old baby girl and life is wonderful!! yes i have had bad relationships but he had proven to me that their are still good men out there. When i was pregnant yes he had his days where he wanted some attention lol but majority it was all about me from cooking, rubbing my feet and running my bath, he was there.. I LOVE MY MAN!!

Heather - posted on 04/05/2010

Great post! I LOVE LOVE LOVE my hubby. We have been together almost 6 years and married almost 3 years with a 7 month old daughter. We divide the house work, he does the cooking almost always (he loves to do it), and we take turns each night with the baby. He always tells me how much he loves me and that I'm beautiful no matter what I think and that he doesn't know where he'd be without me. He's been working so hard since we got pregnant to try to save up enough money and get a better paying job so that I can just work part time and spend more time with our daughter. We have our ups and downs, but that's life. I wouldn't trade him for anyone in the world!

Brandy - posted on 04/05/2010

Some women just don't know how to look past the bad qualities in anyone but themselves! I understand completely what you are saying it irritates me to when people are automatically setting my hubby and I up for failure because they never made right choices and took advantage of a good man. I have even had women look down on me because I do extra things to keep my man satisfied and happy. (example: like bring him his dinner, and then picking up his dishes so he doesn't have to).. What they dont realize is it makes you feel good to take good care of someone who works hard to take good care of you :).. I love love love my husband even when I am so mad at him! haha he wakes up at 5 am and works 12 hr shifts just so I can be a stay at home mom because he knows how important it is for me to be able to do that.. And after working long hard shifts he'll roll around and play with the boys and helps me put them to bed. He deals with my weird mood swings and once in a while tantrums.. He lets me grip and cry on his shoulder when somethings hurt my feelings or made me mad. And these are just some the things he does for us. Honestly he is the perfect rock for me! I appreciate him more than anything and try to show him in anyway I can.. :)

Anneke - posted on 04/05/2010

for once not a post about men thats bashing them! thank ghod there are some happen woman left out there.

I see some that are bitter and twisted and attract the wrong sorts, then they say all men are like that,. They have something about them that attracts the assholes, and we all had a few of them but some of us learned and moved on, some dont and lash out at happy people. Calling all men names and putting them down then going and finding another asshole as they go for the same type all the time. Its sad, I am so glad I learned and I bet some are here to.

One thing that annoys me is a site I am on facebook on, for loving your kids and the only thing they talk about is dead beat dads and being single mums all slating men and some rightfully so though seems to be a real distinct lack of liking men now a days.

mines not perfect but he does go out of his way for me and i do love him, my son loves him to bits.

Angela - posted on 04/05/2010

i hate when women bash their husbands too!! but it makes me appreciate mine just sooo much more!! my husband is amazing as well, been together for 4 years and he supported me through the entire pregnancy and through all the weight gain and supports me now through trying to lose all the weight haha!!