Sara - posted on 05/06/2009 ( 15 moms have responded )
OK here is the deal...I have a 3 year old son and a nearly 1 year old daughter. My husband says that's the "perfect" family. I would like to have1or 2 more kids in the future. I have an IUD right now. I am giving it 4 more years and then looking into it again. The problem is my husband doesn't want any more kids. When he and I got married we had always wanted 4 kids. I know that kids are expensive and you have to buy a bigger car and house. I just would like to know that the option is still on the table. He keep talking about getting a vasectomy. I don't get it? I'm the one that is staying at home with them. I just don't fell like I'm "done" having kids. I didn't "love" being pregnant. of course there where parts that I loved, but the nausea and pain I didn't like. I would do it all again for a large family...Dose this make me crazy? I'm 27 so I have some time to really think about weather or not we should have more kids. Has anyone else encountered this?