Sara - posted on 02/22/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
So my ex husband moved us about 6 hours from our home town right after our son was born and then we divorced after a bunch of stuff happened... He will suport my son fianually but not emotionaly and really only comes around when he has a girlfriend... I don't get alone time much... my son is 2 and is at the phase were he don't need me but wants me all the time... I don't get alone time... at all.... visitation weekends always get lastmin cancelations... I'm tired and need a break so I will go to my parents house for the weekend... so I have noticed that now my dad stands behind me and scowls at my son when i tell him to do somthing cuz my dad thinks that if he don't my son wont.. I don't let my son sleep in bed with me cuz i tend to toss and turn and don't want to have to move him just to roll over plus thats my only alone time when i'm asleep.... my dad has now told me i am moving back to my home town... and i will be at there house every sunday and every holiday no choice... i thought i was an adult.. I have been on my own sence i went to college at19 they have helped me when i needed it but never have they been like this telling me what to do at the age of 26 i was wanting to move to my home town but now i really don't want to i would rather strugle to keep my sanity then go back to being the teenage girl that wasn't aloud to date more or less talk on the phone past 9pm.. with no say on what i do with my life... no now my breaks aren't even breaks anymore they are fights for my sanity also... is anyone else going threw this or am i the only young mother that is having flash back to being 16 again?